<html><head></head><body>Yes please go do your thing (well away from sudo). Seeing as you told me "get the fuck out of my space" I won't be missing you much. One of the nicest things about the move to the omni will likely be not having you around anymore. <br><br><div class="gmail_quote">On June 9, 2014 8:14:10 PM PDT, Timon of Proximal Development <timondocent@gmail.com> wrote:<blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0.8ex; border-left: 1px solid rgb(204, 204, 204); padding-left: 1ex;">
<div dir="ltr">FYI Yar is incorrect. She witnessed the verbal notice herself, which I was given by Matt, who had been avoiding me, after David(?) from TPS came over to broach conversation, and mention to me that I'd been banned.<div>
<br /></div><div>I said Oh, really, walked back the few yards to where Matt and others were talking (we were all outside for smoke breaks). I asked for written confirmations for the ban, from both sudo and TPS, and was promised both there and then, so I said OK, and that I would make it my last night in the common area (where I had some conversations already going on, and had been relaxing and creating all night). I said that I really needed the written statements, and explained why, and got committments to provide them. I got Matt's (sent from his cell right there?) almost immediately, and then no further confirmation. Nonetheless, I refrained from using the common area.</div>
<div><br /></div><div>I have never been told what I do that makes people feel unsafe, never been given a chance to meet anyone to discuss how my behavior might be improved, and never, evidently considered worthy of the most minimal and polite explanation (because there is not enough time).</div>
<div><br /></div><div>Alas, unfortunately, no.</div><div><br /></div><div>Anybody who wants the real story, or to give me the real story, feel free, if you do it in a way that involves compassion. </div><div><br /></div><div>Otherwise, those who are not in my list of 11-of-13 people who decided not to knock on my door or call the phone number posted on it (where I generally am, stuck there trying to do business despite Goerge, in a closed-office located 1 minute or less from the sudo meeting itself) -- </div>
<div><br /></div><div>Anybody who is not such an impolite and crue couldn't-spare-the-timer... not one of those who decided it was to much of a waste of time to explain, have me there (even telephonically) or with non-violent-process-facilitators at a future date chosen at sudo's leisure ... is welcome in the child-friendly space I will be creating myself, assuming they agree to and sign something that will help us prevent this very thing from happening over there, too.</div>
<div><br /></div><div>Close to two dozen people on a total of three occasions have seen me ask for a mediated discussion with Matt or Juul. Nuff said. I tried, often, in front of witnesses. And if there a list of times I avoided people trying to make an appointment with me, then please show me the email or message attempts.</div>
<div><br /></div><div>Oh well.</div><div><br /></div><div>See ya.</div></div><div class="gmail_extra"><br /><br /><div class="gmail_quote">On Mon, Jun 9, 2014 at 6:23 PM, yar <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:yardenack@gmail.com" target="_blank">yardenack@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br />
<blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex">FYI,<br />
<br />
Timon was given verbal and written notice on the night of Thursday May<br />
22, that he is not welcome at Sudoroom. At the following meeting,<br />
Wednesday May 28, 13/13 members present consensed on this statement:<br />
"Regardless of Timon's current membership status, we find him in 'bad<br />
standing' with regard to sudo room's values, specifically with regard<br />
to 'safe space'. We ban Timon from the sudo room, for an indefinite<br />
period."<br />
<br />
This was not a conflict resolution process, it was a ban in the<br />
interest of safe space.That same meeting also consented generally that<br />
2141 tenants don't have an inherent right to our common space and need<br />
specific permission to access it.<br />
<br />
BAPS has a policy of honoring all Sudoroom bans.<br />
<br />
<a href="https://sudoroom.org/wiki/Meeting_Notes_2014-05-28#Bans" target="_blank">https://sudoroom.org/wiki/Meeting_Notes_2014-05-28#Bans</a><br />
<br />
In a perfect world we would offer endless compassion, restoration and<br />
reparation towards all beings. In this world, we don't have the time<br />
or resources to provide the care everybody needs. We sincerely hope<br />
they can find it elsewhere.<br />
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