<div dir="ltr"><div>I strongly disagree. Banning is too drastic a measure for the problems that Darin has, and he has been making a serious effort to deal with them.</div><div><br></div><div>There is long-standing hostility between Darin and Babs. It would be a mistake for the OMNI to get involved in it. Darin, at least, just wants to keep his distance.</div><div><br></div><div>Helen</div><div class="gmail_extra"><br><div class="gmail_quote">On Sun, Apr 5, 2015 at 9:12 AM, WIld Cat <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:wildcatofthewoods@gmail.com" target="_blank">wildcatofthewoods@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0px 0px 0px 0.8ex;padding-left:1ex;border-left-color:rgb(204,204,204);border-left-width:1px;border-left-style:solid"><div dir="ltr">There has been many attempts to mediate with Darin but still he is unaccountable. Therfore I think he needs to be banned so that he can take these issues in his life a little more seriously. Helen what is the conflict that y'all are mediating?</div><div class="HOEnZb"><div class="h5"><div class="gmail_extra"><br><div class="gmail_quote">On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 6:32 PM, Kevin Laird <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:thegayscience@gmail.com" target="_blank">thegayscience@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0px 0px 0px 0.8ex;padding-left:1ex;border-left-color:rgb(204,204,204);border-left-width:1px;border-left-style:solid"><div dir="ltr">whoops. Always read to the end of the thread first... -K</div><div><div><div class="gmail_extra"><br><div class="gmail_quote">On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 6:32 PM, Kevin Laird <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:thegayscience@gmail.com" target="_blank">thegayscience@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0px 0px 0px 0.8ex;padding-left:1ex;border-left-color:rgb(204,204,204);border-left-width:1px;border-left-style:solid"><div dir="ltr"><div>I would speak with Darin. I would need to speak with whomever has been working with him in the past first, is there an extant point person/mediator/steward? Plz fwd me contacts or names.</div><div> tracy I understand your frustrations, and yours as well, cat person, but making the future happen requires a lot of patience!</div><span><font color="#888888"><div class="gmail_extra"><br></div><div class="gmail_extra"> -K</div></font></span><div class="gmail_extra"><br><div class="gmail_quote"><span>On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 5:04 PM, niki <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:niki.shelley@gmail.com" target="_blank">niki.shelley@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br></span><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0px 0px 0px 0.8ex;padding-left:1ex;border-left-color:rgb(204,204,204);border-left-width:1px;border-left-style:solid"><div><div><div dir="ltr">Adding the mediation mailing list to this thread in the hopes that someone will step forward to steward these conflicts towards whatever ends are in the community's best interest.<div><br></div><div><3</div><div><br></div><div>Niki</div></div><div class="gmail_extra"><br><div class="gmail_quote">On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 3:37 PM, WIld Cat <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:wildcatofthewoods@gmail.com" target="_blank">wildcatofthewoods@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0px 0px 0px 0.8ex;padding-left:1ex;border-left-color:rgb(204,204,204);border-left-width:1px;border-left-style:solid"><div dir="ltr">These are community issues not personal issues.</div><div><div><div class="gmail_extra"><br><div class="gmail_quote">On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:53 PM, Tracy Jacobs <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:kinetical@comcast.net" target="_blank">kinetical@comcast.net</a>></span> wrote:<br><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0px 0px 0px 0.8ex;padding-left:1ex;border-left-color:rgb(204,204,204);border-left-width:1px;border-left-style:solid"><div>Sudoers,<div><br></div><div>Respectfully can I suggest that you find another way to address issues of a personal nature and character assassinations or public shaming other than this public mailing list? Why anyone would want to go to Sudo room after reading this mailing list is beyond my comprehension. And it really is a great place. Can anyone think of another venue for these types of discussions?</div><span><font color="#888888"><div><br></div></font></span><div><span><font color="#888888">Tracy<br></font></span><div><div><div><div>On Apr 4, 2015, at 2:41 PM, WIld Cat <<a href="mailto:wildcatofthewoods@gmail.com" target="_blank">wildcatofthewoods@gmail.com</a>> wrote:</div><br></div></div><blockquote type="cite"><div><div><div dir="ltr"><span style="font-size:13px">Daren returned to the space about 20 mins after trying to re-enter and said to me " Do you want to go a couplwe blocks away from here and handle this like an adult." </span><div style="font-size:13px"><br></div><div style="font-size:13px">Pidgen is claiming that I threatened her and I did tell her that "you need to chill out or some shit is going to happen" but I also clarified by saying "I am not threatening you with any form of violence."</div><div style="font-size:13px"><br></div><div style="font-size:13px">Darin is claiming that Babs sexually assaulted someone but Darin did not give any details of what happened.</div></div><div class="gmail_extra"><br><div class="gmail_quote">On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:00 PM, WIld Cat <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:wildcatofthewoods@gmail.com" target="_blank">wildcatofthewoods@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0px 0px 0px 0.8ex;padding-left:1ex;border-left-color:rgb(204,204,204);border-left-width:1px;border-left-style:solid"><div dir="ltr">Today Pidgen was asked to leave in violation of the safer spaces policy on an admitted account of sexual assault in the past as well as recent behaviors of harassment. Daren was asked to leave in violation of the safer spaces policy by aggressive behavior (aggressive swearing, intentional misgendering, inappropriate sexual comments (Told me in an aggressive way that he liked phone sex, than began to yell at me.) He has had a history of being banned from spaces for similar behaviors of sexual harassment and inappropriate behavior.<div><br><div>I would like to begin a mediation process for Daren and I do not feel safe with him being in the space during such process. </div><div><br></div><div>To my knowledge there is an ongoing mediation between Pidgen and Centi. that Pidgen has allegedly violated due to harassing behavior. Pidgen has been banned from several other radical spaces for entitlement problems - theft - aggressive behaivor - accountability issues.</div><div>I do not feel safe in the presences of Pidgen and would call on the community to permanently ban Pidgen.</div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div></div></div>
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