<div dir="ltr">Moving lists to Bcc. Please contact me if you both want to have mediation. It sounds like there was a general misunderstanding that can be quickly resolved at least in this specific case. We're all under a lot of stress, and things can easily escalate. Let's chill for a day or so and see what is feasible then.<div><br></div><div>-Julio<br><br><div class="gmail_quote"><div dir="ltr">On Sun, Aug 28, 2016 at 3:54 PM Max B <<a href="mailto:maxb.personal@gmail.com">maxb.personal@gmail.com</a>> wrote:<br></div><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex">I did tell rob to fuck off. This was after he tried to bully me (for the<br>
second time in the last year) out of a space in which I am also a member.<br>
<br>
I was at sudoroom in the sudomesh shelves looking for a few things which<br>
I paid for out of my own pocket and had never received any compensation<br>
for. I have receipts for the rj45ez crimper, the outdoor shielded cable,<br>
and some rj45s. I'm happy to show them to anyone who asks. Rob came over<br>
and tried to act as sudoroom police, telling me that I couldn't be there<br>
and that I couldn't get my things. I told him that while I wasn't a<br>
member of sudomesh anymore, I was in fact a sudoroom member and that I<br>
was retrieving a few things that were mine. He continued to tell me I<br>
couldn't be there. I became emotional and told him to "fuck off". At<br>
that point he became totally irate and told me that I had to leave,<br>
putting his body in the way of me getting my things.<br>
<br>
At that point, short of a physical altercation, there was nothing I<br>
could do, so I walked out of the building. I reached my car and realized<br>
that I only had the crimpers, but I really need the cable for a project<br>
I'm working on this week, so I went back in the front door. Rob was<br>
there and got mad again. I told him that I just wanted the cable that<br>
was mine. He said that I couldn't be in the building, but if I went<br>
outside I could show him the receipt and he would get the cable for him.<br>
I opened my computer to get the receipt and looked through my emails.<br>
Shortly after, he told me that he wasn't in the mood to help me and that<br>
I could arrange with sudomesh to get it some other time. At that point I<br>
left.<br>
<br>
I need the cable this coming week. I'm planning on coming back tomorrow<br>
(24 hours temp ban or whatever) to get it. I've already been completely<br>
and totally let down by the "mediation" process at sudoroom. Several<br>
core members of the omni can attest to that and it's something which<br>
I'll discuss with anyone, though I don't need to publicly shame folks.<br>
After I get my things, I suppose Rob and company can decide if they<br>
really want to go forwards with mediation after what happened the last time.<br>
<br>
I was actually only planning on borrowing MY THINGS for a few days.<br>
<br>
<br>
Max<br>
<br>
On 8/28/16 3:30 PM, robb wrote:<br>
> i saw Max B looking through the sudomesh gear and i told him that i thought<br>
> he had quit the sudomesh project & asked what he was doing. He told me to<br>
> "fuck off" and i asked him to leave for violating our safe space policy. He<br>
> walked back in the front door after i walked him out the side door & when<br>
> he saw me he claimed he wanted to grab a spool of ethernet cable. i told<br>
> him to contact sudomesh to get whatever materials he claims are his.<br>
><br>
> i noticed he took a pair of rj45 crimpers (blue handle) which he claimed<br>
> were his.<br>
><br>
> ~r<br>
><br>
><br>
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