Whether or not you can have a relationship in a single
bed is irrelevant. Everyone agrees here, rent is too damn
high. Part of the cause of this is artificially limited
supply.
Re. Romy-
Yes, apts in HK and Tokyo are small, but not so small
that you can't have a double bed and a dinner table
(Tokyo apts even have space for small washing machines
& small wall-mounted dryers). And in any case,
Japan has a decent social safety net, something we
shredded starting with Reagan.
If you're interested, I can show you some floorplans
I've created for micro living spaces. The stuff I
designed is geared toward the hacker/maker lifestyle
with a strong emphasis on sustainability. I'd happily
live in a tiny space of my own making, but not a
developer's design that can't be hacked or modded and
is geared toward the media-consumption lifestyle.
Agreed, the large houses Americans have had for the
past century or so are ridiculous, not to mention
_lawns_. But there's a difference between a wasteful
4,000 square foot suburban sprawl, and an apartment
that's smaller than a camping trailer.
Something else about those tiny apartments: if your
best friend loses his/her job, s/he can't sleep on
your couch when there's no room for a couch. Sleeping
on the floor in the tiny aisle next to your bed gets
old after about the second time s/he gets stepped on
when you get out of bed at night to go to the
bathroom.
The Oligarchy likes to have it both ways: Big houses
for people who can afford to buy more stuff.
Prison-sized apartments for people who can't.
Increase the class divide: more at the top, less at
the bottom.
The profit motive for those prison-sized apartments is
that developers get more per square foot. $750 for
200 square feet translates to $3.75 per square foot.
Contrast to $2,000 for 800 square feet, which
translates to $2.50 per square foot.
See how that works? Fifty percent increase in price
per square foot. Clever racket, eh?
Decrease in cars is a factor of available public
transport for the hours and places needed. Someone
who works the late shift across the Bay and comes home
after BART stops running, is probably going to end up
with a car, even if they have to play parking space
roulette every day. BART running 24/7 would do more
to decrease car commuting in the Bay Area, than
squeezing people into shoe-boxes.
Larger apartments mean you have more choices as to how
you live and who you live with. Smaller apartments
mean fewer choices. Again, we're not talking about
multi-thousand-square-foot sprawl, but about having
enough space for someone to choose whether to live
alone or with a friend, or offer their couch to an
unemployed friend, or the options available for single
parents with kids who are toddlers or older.
200 square feet also means you can't telecommute or
telework, because there's not enough space for even a
small desk for a computer. Using a tablet while
sitting on the edge of the bed gets old real fast
too. And forget about modifying the space in any way:
those places are like hotel rooms, no user
modifications or space hacks allowed. What's
important is _choice_. The choice to work and play at
home sometimes, and in communal space sometimes.
How these neo boarding houses are worse than work
lofts: for one thing, you can't work there. And no
space for a kitchen table, so forget about inviting
friends over for dinner. No space for anything that
involves having more than on