...I feel really awkward proposing this, but
lately it seems like the thing to do with some
of the newcomers goes something like this-
1. Get loaded somewhere else
2. Head to Sudo
3. ???
4. RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAGE!!! (and/or pass out, depending)
As someone who used to do this on a nightly basis, I kind
of get it but even in my finer moments I don't think I
would have shown up at a space where people were trying to
work and expected a warm reception. And, as someone who
has chosen to embrace sobriety I have no quarrel with
people who haven't, but since I haven't really developed
the patience required to deal with drunk folks yet I tend
to retreat or act somewhat distant towards them. Sometimes
this results in them chasing me around the space because
they want to "hang out," especially if I'm working on
music stuff...that's okay if they can do so in a
non-disruptive manner, but I'm kind of screwed if they
can't so I'm more or less forced to deal with them or
(sacre bleu!) leave Sudo to try to get shit done.
What I am NOT proposing is making Sudo a sober space. If it
comes to that, sure, but as a first measure I think it's
heavy handed and doesn't really serve the interests of the
community that can have a couple of beers and function
equally well as without. I think what I am asking is that
we, as a group, need to send the message that Sudo is not
the afterparty, and that if it continues to be treated like
one that the individuals involved will be asked to leave for
the night. I think being somewhat forgiving in this
situation is probably not a bad idea...and of course,
repeated behavior of this sort will probably be brought up
in a meeting (i.e. is having ***** around worth it?) and
appropriate action will be taken.
Needless to say, Sudo/BAPS events would be more or less
exempt since the actual drinking will be taking place here
and any situations that arise from said drinking will be
dealt with as needed.
I would like to hear what everyone has to say about this.