[sudo-discuss] bathrooms.

[Jenny Ryan]

Eddan was loud, rude, and hostile from the get go. I did not look him in
the eyes because I felt attacked and threatened. Rather, I calmly asked him
(repeatedly) to stop yelling and being confrontational.

I then proceeded to have a panic attack. I will not apologize for being
triggered when large angry men yell at me because I don't take on
responsibility for the action items assigned to others.

Pro tip #1: If you are angry and upset about something, it's best to take
some time to cool off so that you can calmly discuss the issue with the
appropriate party.

Pro tip #2: When someone calmly asks you to stop yelling, the appropriate
response is to stop yelling, rather than yell, "I'm not yelling!!"

All this said, we are very much looking forward to getting Eddan off the
lease and are currently researching insurance options post-meeting  (the
new demand for us to have insurance is the reason we have not yet been able
to switch over). If anyone has suggestions or recommendations, please post
them here :)

/jnny


On Wed, Feb 26, 2014 at 7:23 PM, eddan.com <eddan at sudoroom.tv> wrote:

> Hi All.
>
> I just got a whole other set of complaints from the landlords about the
> use of the common area without regard for any other tenants in addition to
> this bathroom issue. I am still on the lease and have been asking to be
> removed since August. I have been feeling quite taken advantage of in
> continuously being told that my request will be honored onto after month
> without any movement on it. Isn't there enough money in the bank for Sudo
> Room to pay for insurance at this point? Is there some other reason I'm
> still on the lease?
>
> I've tried to deal with this through Matt and despite his honest efforts,
> it keeps getting stalled. After another round of landlord complaints this
> evening, I tried to talk to some of the other Board members. While some
> expressed surprise that I was still on the lease and others sought a means
> to remedy the situation, others were extremely rude, expressing complete
> indifference and saying it was not their problem and that I was being
> offensive. What!?! And then when I explained that I felt taken advantage
> of, was told (without even looking up from the computer) that this was
> triggering and told to stop.
>
> Look. I don't want to have any abrupt termination of the lease, but I've
> had more than enough of the derision and indifference when I try to ask to
> be removed from the lease. To be taunted for asking is outrageous.
>
> Can we come up with a date by which we turn the lease over to Sudo Room?
>
>
> sent from eddan.com
>
> > On Feb 25, 2014, at 1:57 PM, David Keenan <dkeenan44 at gmail.com> wrote:
> >
> > Hey all,
> >
> > Whomever is bottomlining big or big-ish events at the space, needs to
> check on the bathrooms during the event, and check on them after the event,
> and if they are by some chance trashed, clean them.
> >
> > Apparently the TP is sometimes running out during big events, causing
> people to use paper towels or napkins or other things, which then clog the
> toilets, which makes George really mad.
> >
> > Specifically, this apparently happened during the Spied Upon event which
> I bottomlined. Even though I cleaned the common area and took out the
> garbage etc before and after, I neglected to check on the state of the
> bathrooms (so that is totally on me).
> >
> > What we need to start doing in my opinion is having some extra TP on
> hand so we can pre-stock the bathrooms before large gatherings, so it does
> not run out.
> >
> > I also think if any one of us notices the bathrooms are messed up or out
> of supplies, we should also tell the bottomliner of the event, or fix it
> ourselves.
> >
> > This is especially important to remember at the end of the night when
> everyone is pooped and ready to head home: If you bottomline, check on the
> bathrooms before you leave..
> >
> > Best,
> > David
> > _______________________________________________
> > sudo-discuss mailing list
> > sudo-discuss at lists.sudoroom.org
> > http://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss
>
-------------- next part --------------
An HTML attachment was scrubbed...
URL: <http://sudoroom.org/pipermail/sudo-discuss/attachments/20140226/0db6bff1/attachment.html>