Hey Daniel, just for you to know you're not alone in this journey, I also did a BootCamp and now work in the tech industry, totally worth IMO, I was at risk of not being able to afford Oakland anymore and that move totally changed things.
I did a BootCamp for women/non binary only, but there are a bunch out there. The only thing is that they're usually $$$, some have a deal to pay it only after getting a job, but yea, it's a bit of pressure not everyone is down to take. I know a friend who's doing one that is free but like do-it-in-your-own-pace style, let me ask her the name.
If you have any question about bootcamps in general feel free to dm me.
ps: I love kingfish! Havent been there since pandemic, but maybe I can stop by soon!