[sudo-discuss] [omni-discuss] Shawn

[Eske Silver]

The topic was added to the delegate agenda to include All of the recent
incidents and iteractions with guests who have caused physical discomfort,
and/or uneasiness, distrust, alienation, etc, etc, etc.

Shawn is included in this group, as he is one of the guests who has behaved
in abusive (wide definiton, mind) ways not only toward people, but toward
the commons itself.
We ought to have a communal discussion about All similar characters,
interactions and concerns.

If someone would contact John Benson to ask if he would be willing to help
us specifically with Shawn, that would be best.
Since his behavior doesn't seem entirely in his control, we should of
course approach his case with empathy, but also that we cannot tolerate
abusive behavior of any kind, as it wholly violates the goal of the commons
being a place where people feel safe, respected, supported, etc.

Whichever decision is made, that concerns Shawn and/or other current and
future aggrevators, I think it's only fair that all who are and have been
affected by the individual/s and their behavior, ought to be present and
have their concerns voiced. But perhaps both situations concurrently
wouldn't hurt.

~ Korl

500px.com/eske
510.689.4484
On Dec 18, 2014 2:27 AM, "Eske Silver" <eske.silver at gmail.com> wrote:

> Aye, aye. Slashes, bruh, slashes! Not commas!
> Sheesh.
>
> ~ Korl
>
> 500px.com/eske
> 510.689.4484
> On Dec 17, 2014 1:23 PM, Løng$hanks <longshanks at spaz.org> wrote:
>
>> As a rude, aggressive, abusive drunk squatter, I find this offensive.
>>
>> On Tue, December 16, 2014 10:29 pm, Eske Silver wrote:
>> > I added to the agenda as a general item (dealing with
>> > rude/aggressive/abusive/drunk guests/squatters... etc)
>> >
>> > ~ Korl
>> >
>> > 500px.com/eske
>> > 510.689.4484
>> > On Dec 16, 2014 4:03 PM, "Marc Juul" <juul at labitat.dk> wrote:
>> >
>> >>
>> >>
>> >> On Mon, Dec 15, 2014 at 7:03 PM, Eske Silver <eske.silver at gmail.com>
>> >> wrote:
>> >>>
>> >>> I too have had less than steller interactions, and witness similar
>> with
>> >>> others, including Niki on one or more occasions.
>> >>> It's a shame that he does not seem to respect the space. I understsnd
>> >>> that he's in a bad way, and has little other options. But I feel we
>> are in
>> >>> need of a sit down with him about how he might conduct himself here
>> in a
>> >>> way that is at least slightly less aggravating/ alienating/ etc.
>> >>> That being said, I have years of experience interacting with mentally
>> ill
>> >>> (decades), socially inept, and homeless people. At some point a line
>> needs
>> >>> to be drawn. We are not his parents, nor are we responsible for his
>> >>> situation. We are not obligated to light ourselves on fire to keep
>> someone
>> >>> else warm.
>> >>> Are a few of us free some time soon to meet up to discuss this in
>> person?
>> >>> To discuss in general the handful of people who have acted in similar
>> (and
>> >>> worse) ways recently, and try to find a solution.
>> >>>
>> >> Could this be a subject for tomorrow's meeting?
>> >>
>> >> --
>> >> marc/juul
>> >>
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>>
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