[sudo-discuss] Dia de los Muertos fundraiser: is happening?

Wed Oct 29 16:40:24 PDT 2014

1. All Hispanic cultures are not a monolith, as all mexican cultures
aren't, and all Latino cultures are not. Whether Latino/Hispanic/Mexican
people choose to celebrate holidays or not has nothing to do with the fact
that white people co-opting those same holidays is cultural appropriation.
This is a strawman argument.

2. Hispanic/Latino/Mexican people do not need you, a white person, to tell
them how to be Latino/Hispanic/Mexican. Can we keep away from these kinds
of "whites say this kind of Mexican is the only acceptable form" ideas?
Because we are running perilously close to that.

3. Again, Hispanic/Latino/Mexican people are not a monolith. One person not
minding you celebrating the holidays doesn't co-sign that as OK for the
group anymore than one black person not caring if you use the N word makes
it OK to use in any company.

4. Saying that white people celebrating DDLM on their own is cultural
appropriation isn't speaking for the group, it is possible and acceptable
for many people of the group to have many conflicting ideas. It is for the
group to work out, not for white people to come in and tell people what to
think and how to think it.

5. If you learned about these kinds of racist and white supremacist thought
patterns in college I am confused as to why we are essentially doing Racism
101 on this list at this point? Is it because you want to make minorities
do the heavy lifting for you? Can you not seek out answers to these
questions (which have been exhaustively covered both in POC circles as
manuals to white people, or by white people such as Tim Wise) on your own?
Why are we at the point of wasting hours of my life as a hispanic educating
you on basic racism and cultural appropriation at this point?

-Hep

On Fri, Oct 24, 2014 at 6:05 PM, Sonja Trauss <sonja.trauss at gmail.com>
wrote:

> No break it down for me - hep announced she's Hispanic, then announced
> there is something wrong with whites celebrating Hispanic holidays.
>
> I assume those statements are connected - are they not? I thought the 1st
> one was designed to give some authority to the 2nd one.
>
> My other question is to clarify her statement, if whites can't celebrate
> Hispanic holidays, is it also the case that Hispanics must celebrate
> Hispanic holidays? The logic behind the prohibition on whites celebrating
> Hispanic holidays (whites are appropriating-stealing-'taking away' the
> holiday) implies also a positive mandate that Hispanics must celebrate the
> holiday. How much more would Hispanics be alienated from DD if they stopped
> celebrating it! Is this the case? I'm trying to understand the argument.
>
>
> On Friday, October 24, 2014, max b <maxb.personal at gmail.com> wrote:
>
>> Ok so maybe there's still a chance to keep this from turning into the
>> proper train-wreck that I'm sensing.
>>
>> Perhaps you'd like to take a few minutes and re-think those questions and
>> consider whether or not they're particularly thoughtful and whether you'd
>> like to re-phrase them and/or retract them?
>>
>> I think people on the list would be more than willing to consider that
>> they might have been sent in a moment of heat and that some small amount of
>> cooling off would let us actually allow this thread to turn into something
>> more productive....
>>
>>
>> On Fri, Oct 24, 2014 at 5:53 PM, Sonja Trauss <sonja.trauss at gmail.com>
>> wrote:
>>
>>> I just didn't want to seem aggressive or like I'm trying to troll the
>>> list or criticize you in public.
>>>
>>> But since you do - can you explain a thing I always wonder about when I
>>> read authoritative statements about "My Culture" -
>>> What should I make of Hispanics that don't agree with you - Hispanics
>>> who do not care who celebrates their holidays, or Hispanics who don't feel
>>> particularly connected to their holidays? Which one of you speaks for all
>>> Hispanics?
>>>
>>> On Friday, October 24, 2014, Hep Svadja <hepkitten at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>
>>>> Bringing this back to the list because, as per usual I do not enjoy
>>>> being contacted offlist and berated about my culture, or berated about
>>>> white people's entitlement to my culture.
>>>>
>>>> This is a problem.
>>>>
>>>> -hep
>>>>
>>>> On Fri, Oct 24, 2014 at 5:32 PM, Sonja Trauss <sonja.trauss at gmail.com>
>>>> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> I'm from the east coast, Philadelphia. Philadelphia is 45,45,10 black,
>>>>> white, Hispanic (mostly Puerto Rican) + Asian (Cambodian, Vietnamese,
>>>>> Filipino, Korean and Chinese). As you can maybe imagine, day of the dead is
>>>>> really not a thing in Philadlephia. When I lived there, I never went to a
>>>>> DD party, or even really had heard of it.
>>>>>
>>>>> Here, in the bay, the racial/ethnic distribution is way different. I
>>>>> never meet Puerto Ricans any more, and there are way fewer blacks. There
>>>>> are more Asians and Hispanics. Not only is the current Hispanic population
>>>>> here bigger, this area was settled by Spanish soldiers (unlike
>>>>> Philadelphia, settled by Dutch and English mostly. Also some Germans). The
>>>>> Spanish settler influence is all over - in names, in the types of old
>>>>> buildings. The white people I meet here are Way more likely to speak
>>>>> Spanish than the people I grew up with. the white people I meet here know
>>>>> more about Mexico and Central America than the ppl back east. The point is,
>>>>> California is a way more Hispanic part of the US overall than anywhere I
>>>>> lived before.
>>>>>
>>>>> Therefore, it is not surprising at all to see way more DD. Moreover,
>>>>> it doesn't seem strange to me that people who live near each other
>>>>> would celebrate the same holidays. The thing that makes many Hispanics
>>>>> celebrate day of the dead (seeing Hispanics celebrate day of the dead) also
>>>>> makes white people celebrate day of the dead.
>>>>> Put another way, is it weird to you how many atheists
>>>>> and non-Christians in America celebrate Christmas? Probably not - you can
>>>>> see that at on December 25th, Christmas is just the thing to do.
>>>>> When you see white people celebrating DD here, it's not because they
>>>>> want to steal your holiday, it's because your culture is pervasive here.
>>>>> Does that make sense?
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> On Friday, October 24, 2014, Hep Svadja <hepkitten at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>> hi guys:
>>>>>>
>>>>>> a little bothered by the cultural appropriation of this event. as a
>>>>>> Bay Area Hispanic I find it quite strange when groups of mostly white
>>>>>> people with no ties to the actual culture of ddlm host events not in the
>>>>>> actual spirit of this extremely reverent Hispanic holiday. basically if you
>>>>>> don't build an ofrenda on your ancestors' graves every year i find it
>>>>>> really problematic to be jumping aboard this holiday as you are clearly not
>>>>>> of this culture. using it as an excuse for a dance party is even more
>>>>>> questionable as is encouraging people with no understanding of this
>>>>>> cultural holiday to dress up, which i understand is for the best of reasons
>>>>>> but also pretty exploitative of a culture you don't belong to.  what is
>>>>>> wrong with just making this a Halloween party and not contributing to the
>>>>>> ongoing exploitation of local Hispanic communities of color?
>>>>>>
>>>>>> -hep
>>>>>>
>>>>>> * edited this to be less of a jerk.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> On Thu, Oct 23, 2014 at 1:54 PM, yar <yardenack at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>>
>>>>>>> On Thu, Oct 23, 2014 at 12:42 PM, Lesley Bell <zvezdalune at gmail.com>
>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>> > Hello!
>>>>>>> >
>>>>>>> > The Omni needs funds.  Dia de los Muertos is a thing. We would
>>>>>>> like to
>>>>>>> > introduce new people to the space and expand our community.
>>>>>>> >
>>>>>>> > I have attached a flyer for a possible event, a funky
>>>>>>> transhumanist/Dia de
>>>>>>> > los Muertos themed costume ball.  Should this happen? Is there a
>>>>>>> reason
>>>>>>> > anyone would like to block?
>>>>>>> >
>>>>>>> > Also, steampunk zombies! Mechanical corpses! Post-singularity
>>>>>>> glittery
>>>>>>> > things covered in LEDs! Ordinary awesome humans!
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Looks fun! Right now the way to book events is:
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> 1) check the calendar for conflicts:
>>>>>>> https://omnicommons.org/wiki/Calendar
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> 2) submit this form: bit.ly/omniballroom
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Full explanation and future changes to the process will go here:
>>>>>>> https://omnicommons.org/wiki/How_to_book_events
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