[sudo-discuss] Max B asked to leave

[Max B]

I've forwarded receipts for the cable and the crimper to relevant
individuals as I don't really want to share personal details with the
list. I need the cable this week so I'm coming by tomorrow to pick it
up. I'm happy to discuss any "mediation" off list.


On 8/28/16 4:04 PM, Julio Rios wrote:
> Moving lists to Bcc.  Please contact me if you both want to have mediation.
> It sounds like there was a general misunderstanding that can be quickly
> resolved at least in this specific case.  We're all under a lot of stress,
> and things can easily escalate.  Let's chill for a day or so and see what
> is feasible then.
> 
> -Julio
> 
> On Sun, Aug 28, 2016 at 3:54 PM Max B <maxb.personal at gmail.com> wrote:
> 
>> I did tell rob to fuck off. This was after he tried to bully me (for the
>> second time in the last year) out of a space in which I am also a member.
>>
>> I was at sudoroom in the sudomesh shelves looking for a few things which
>> I paid for out of my own pocket and had never received any compensation
>> for. I have receipts for the rj45ez crimper, the outdoor shielded cable,
>> and some rj45s. I'm happy to show them to anyone who asks. Rob came over
>> and tried to act as sudoroom police, telling me that I couldn't be there
>> and that I couldn't get my things. I told him that while I wasn't a
>> member of sudomesh anymore, I was in fact a sudoroom member and that I
>> was retrieving a few things that were mine. He continued to tell me I
>> couldn't be there. I became emotional and told him to "fuck off". At
>> that point he became totally irate and told me that I had to leave,
>> putting his body in the way of me getting my things.
>>
>> At that point, short of a physical altercation, there was nothing I
>> could do, so I walked out of the building. I reached my car and realized
>> that I only had the crimpers, but I really need the cable for a project
>> I'm working on this week, so I went back in the front door. Rob was
>> there and got mad again. I told him that I just wanted the cable that
>> was mine. He said that I couldn't be in the building, but if I went
>> outside I could show him the receipt and he would get the cable for him.
>> I opened my computer to get the receipt and looked through my emails.
>> Shortly after, he told me that he wasn't in the mood to help me and that
>> I could arrange with sudomesh to get it some other time. At that point I
>> left.
>>
>> I need the cable this coming week. I'm planning on coming back tomorrow
>> (24 hours temp ban or whatever) to get it. I've already been completely
>> and totally let down by the "mediation" process at sudoroom. Several
>> core members of the omni can attest to that and it's something which
>> I'll discuss with anyone, though I don't need to publicly shame folks.
>> After I get my things, I suppose Rob and company can decide if they
>> really want to go forwards with mediation after what happened the last
>> time.
>>
>> I was actually only planning on borrowing MY THINGS for a few days.
>>
>>
>> Max
>>
>> On 8/28/16 3:30 PM, robb wrote:
>>> i saw Max B looking through the sudomesh gear and i told him that i
>> thought
>>> he had quit the sudomesh project & asked what he was doing. He told me to
>>> "fuck off" and i asked him to leave for violating our safe space policy.
>> He
>>> walked back in the front door after i walked him out the side door & when
>>> he saw me he claimed he wanted to grab a spool of ethernet cable. i told
>>> him to contact sudomesh to get whatever materials he claims are his.
>>>
>>> i noticed he took a pair of rj45 crimpers (blue handle) which he claimed
>>> were his.
>>>
>>> ~r
>>>
>>>
>>>
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