[sudo-discuss] Fear / food / friendship

[Max B]

Yes please go do your thing (well away from sudo). Seeing as you told me "get the fuck out of my space" I won't be missing you much. One of the nicest things about the move to the omni will likely be not having you around anymore. 

On June 9, 2014 8:14:10 PM PDT, Timon of Proximal Development <timondocent at gmail.com> wrote:
>FYI Yar is incorrect. She witnessed the verbal notice herself, which I
>was
>given by Matt, who had been avoiding me, after David(?) from TPS came
>over
>to broach conversation, and mention to me that I'd been banned.
>
>I said Oh, really, walked back the few yards to where Matt and others
>were
>talking (we were all outside for smoke breaks). I asked for written
>confirmations for the ban, from both sudo and TPS, and was promised
>both
>there and then, so I said OK, and that I would make it my last night in
>the
>common area (where I had some conversations already going on, and had
>been
>relaxing and creating all night). I said that I really needed the
>written
>statements, and explained why, and got committments to provide them. I
>got
>Matt's (sent from his cell right there?) almost immediately, and then
>no
>further confirmation. Nonetheless, I refrained from using the common
>area.
>
>I have never been told what I do that makes people feel unsafe, never
>been
>given a chance to meet anyone to discuss how my behavior might be
>improved,
>and never, evidently considered worthy of the most minimal and polite
>explanation (because there is not enough time).
>
>Alas, unfortunately, no.
>
>Anybody who wants the real story, or to give me the real story, feel
>free,
>if you do it in a way that involves compassion.
>
>Otherwise, those who are not in my list of 11-of-13 people who decided
>not
>to knock on my door or call the phone number posted on it (where I
>generally am, stuck there trying to do business despite Goerge, in a
>closed-office located 1 minute or less from the sudo meeting itself) 
>--
>
>Anybody who is not such an impolite and crue
>couldn't-spare-the-timer...
>not one of those who decided it was to much of a waste of time to
>explain,
> have me there (even telephonically) or with
>non-violent-process-facilitators at a future date chosen at sudo's
>leisure
>... is welcome in the child-friendly space I will be creating myself,
>assuming they agree to and sign something that will help us prevent
>this
>very thing from happening over there, too.
>
>Close to two dozen people on a total of three occasions have seen me
>ask
>for a mediated discussion with Matt or Juul. Nuff said. I tried, often,
>in
>front of witnesses. And if there a list of times I avoided people
>trying to
>make an appointment with me, then please show me the email or message
>attempts.
>
>Oh well.
>
>See ya.
>
>
>On Mon, Jun 9, 2014 at 6:23 PM, yar <yardenack at gmail.com> wrote:
>
>> FYI,
>>
>> Timon was given verbal and written notice on the night of Thursday
>May
>> 22, that he is not welcome at Sudoroom. At the following meeting,
>> Wednesday May 28, 13/13 members present consensed on this statement:
>> "Regardless of Timon's current membership status, we find him in 'bad
>> standing' with regard to sudo room's values, specifically with regard
>> to 'safe space'. We ban Timon from the sudo room, for an indefinite
>> period."
>>
>> This was not a conflict resolution process, it was a ban in the
>> interest of safe space.That same meeting also consented generally
>that
>> 2141 tenants don't have an inherent right to our common space and
>need
>> specific permission to access it.
>>
>> BAPS has a policy of honoring all Sudoroom bans.
>>
>> https://sudoroom.org/wiki/Meeting_Notes_2014-05-28#Bans
>>
>> In a perfect world we would offer endless compassion, restoration and
>> reparation towards all beings. In this world, we don't have the time
>> or resources to provide the care everybody needs. We sincerely hope
>> they can find it elsewhere.
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