[sudo-discuss] [omni-mediation] Today 4/4/15: Pidgen and Daren have been temp banned for safer spaces policy violations

[Kevin Laird]

I would speak with Darin. I would need to speak with whomever has been
working with him in the past first, is there an extant point
person/mediator/steward? Plz fwd me contacts or names.
  tracy I understand your frustrations, and yours as well, cat person, but
making the future happen requires a lot of patience!

                -K

On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 5:04 PM, niki <niki.shelley at gmail.com> wrote:

> Adding the mediation mailing list to this thread in the hopes that someone
> will step forward to steward these conflicts towards whatever ends are in
> the community's best interest.
>
> <3
>
> Niki
>
> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 3:37 PM, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods at gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
>> These are community issues not personal issues.
>>
>> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:53 PM, Tracy Jacobs <kinetical at comcast.net>
>> wrote:
>>
>>> Sudoers,
>>>
>>> Respectfully can I suggest that you find another way to address issues
>>> of a personal nature and character assassinations or public shaming other
>>> than this public mailing list?  Why anyone would want to go to Sudo room
>>> after reading this  mailing list is beyond my comprehension.  And it really
>>> is a great place.  Can anyone think of another venue for these types of
>>> discussions?
>>>
>>> Tracy
>>> On Apr 4, 2015, at 2:41 PM, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods at gmail.com>
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>> Daren returned to the space about 20 mins after trying to re-enter and
>>> said to me " Do you want to go a couplwe blocks away from here and handle
>>> this like an adult."
>>>
>>> Pidgen is claiming that I threatened her and I did tell her that "you
>>> need to chill out or some shit is going to happen" but I also clarified by
>>> saying "I am not threatening you with any form of violence."
>>>
>>> Darin is claiming that Babs sexually assaulted someone but Darin did not
>>> give any details of what happened.
>>>
>>> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:00 PM, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods at gmail.com>
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>>> Today Pidgen was asked to leave in violation of the safer spaces policy
>>>> on an admitted account of sexual assault in the past as well as recent
>>>> behaviors of harassment. Daren was asked to leave in violation of the safer
>>>> spaces policy by aggressive  behavior (aggressive swearing, intentional
>>>> misgendering, inappropriate sexual comments (Told me in an aggressive way
>>>> that he liked phone sex, than began to yell at me.) He has had a history of
>>>> being banned from spaces for similar behaviors of sexual harassment and
>>>> inappropriate behavior.
>>>>
>>>> I would like to begin a mediation process for Daren and I do not feel
>>>> safe with him being in the space during such process.
>>>>
>>>> To my knowledge there is an ongoing mediation between Pidgen and Centi.
>>>> that Pidgen has allegedly violated due to harassing behavior. Pidgen has
>>>> been banned from several other radical spaces for entitlement problems -
>>>> theft - aggressive behaivor - accountability issues.
>>>> I do not feel safe in the presences of Pidgen and would call on the
>>>> community to permanently ban Pidgen.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
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