[sudo-discuss] [omni-mediation] Today 4/4/15: Pidgen and Daren have been temp banned for safer spaces policy violations

Kevin Laird thegayscience at gmail.com
Sat Apr 4 18:32:55 PDT 2015


whoops. Always read to the end of the thread first...   -K

On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 6:32 PM, Kevin Laird <thegayscience at gmail.com> wrote:

> I would speak with Darin. I would need to speak with whomever has been
> working with him in the past first, is there an extant point
> person/mediator/steward? Plz fwd me contacts or names.
>   tracy I understand your frustrations, and yours as well, cat person, but
> making the future happen requires a lot of patience!
>
>                 -K
>
> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 5:04 PM, niki <niki.shelley at gmail.com> wrote:
>
>> Adding the mediation mailing list to this thread in the hopes that
>> someone will step forward to steward these conflicts towards whatever ends
>> are in the community's best interest.
>>
>> <3
>>
>> Niki
>>
>> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 3:37 PM, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods at gmail.com>
>> wrote:
>>
>>> These are community issues not personal issues.
>>>
>>> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:53 PM, Tracy Jacobs <kinetical at comcast.net>
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>>> Sudoers,
>>>>
>>>> Respectfully can I suggest that you find another way to address issues
>>>> of a personal nature and character assassinations or public shaming other
>>>> than this public mailing list?  Why anyone would want to go to Sudo room
>>>> after reading this  mailing list is beyond my comprehension.  And it really
>>>> is a great place.  Can anyone think of another venue for these types of
>>>> discussions?
>>>>
>>>> Tracy
>>>> On Apr 4, 2015, at 2:41 PM, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods at gmail.com>
>>>> wrote:
>>>>
>>>> Daren returned to the space about 20 mins after trying to re-enter and
>>>> said to me " Do you want to go a couplwe blocks away from here and handle
>>>> this like an adult."
>>>>
>>>> Pidgen is claiming that I threatened her and I did tell her that "you
>>>> need to chill out or some shit is going to happen" but I also clarified by
>>>> saying "I am not threatening you with any form of violence."
>>>>
>>>> Darin is claiming that Babs sexually assaulted someone but Darin did
>>>> not give any details of what happened.
>>>>
>>>> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:00 PM, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods at gmail.com>
>>>> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> Today Pidgen was asked to leave in violation of the safer spaces
>>>>> policy on an admitted account of sexual assault in the past as well as
>>>>> recent behaviors of harassment. Daren was asked to leave in violation of
>>>>> the safer spaces policy by aggressive  behavior (aggressive swearing,
>>>>> intentional misgendering, inappropriate sexual comments (Told me in an
>>>>> aggressive way that he liked phone sex, than began to yell at me.) He has
>>>>> had a history of being banned from spaces for similar behaviors of sexual
>>>>> harassment and inappropriate behavior.
>>>>>
>>>>> I would like to begin a mediation process for Daren and I do not feel
>>>>> safe with him being in the space during such process.
>>>>>
>>>>> To my knowledge there is an ongoing mediation between Pidgen and
>>>>> Centi. that Pidgen has allegedly violated due to harassing behavior. Pidgen
>>>>> has been banned from several other radical spaces for entitlement problems
>>>>> - theft - aggressive behaivor - accountability issues.
>>>>> I do not feel safe in the presences of Pidgen and would call on the
>>>>> community to permanently ban Pidgen.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
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