[sudo-discuss] [omni-mediation] Today 4/4/15: Pidgen and Daren have been temp banned for safer spaces policy violations

[WIld Cat]

There has been many attempts to mediate with Darin but still he is
unaccountable. Therfore I think he needs  to be banned so that he can take
these issues in his life a little more seriously. Helen what is the
conflict that y'all are mediating?

On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 6:32 PM, Kevin Laird <thegayscience at gmail.com> wrote:

> whoops. Always read to the end of the thread first...   -K
>
> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 6:32 PM, Kevin Laird <thegayscience at gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
>> I would speak with Darin. I would need to speak with whomever has been
>> working with him in the past first, is there an extant point
>> person/mediator/steward? Plz fwd me contacts or names.
>>   tracy I understand your frustrations, and yours as well, cat person,
>> but making the future happen requires a lot of patience!
>>
>>                 -K
>>
>> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 5:04 PM, niki <niki.shelley at gmail.com> wrote:
>>
>>> Adding the mediation mailing list to this thread in the hopes that
>>> someone will step forward to steward these conflicts towards whatever ends
>>> are in the community's best interest.
>>>
>>> <3
>>>
>>> Niki
>>>
>>> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 3:37 PM, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods at gmail.com>
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>>> These are community issues not personal issues.
>>>>
>>>> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:53 PM, Tracy Jacobs <kinetical at comcast.net>
>>>> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> Sudoers,
>>>>>
>>>>> Respectfully can I suggest that you find another way to address issues
>>>>> of a personal nature and character assassinations or public shaming other
>>>>> than this public mailing list?  Why anyone would want to go to Sudo room
>>>>> after reading this  mailing list is beyond my comprehension.  And it really
>>>>> is a great place.  Can anyone think of another venue for these types of
>>>>> discussions?
>>>>>
>>>>> Tracy
>>>>> On Apr 4, 2015, at 2:41 PM, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods at gmail.com>
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>> Daren returned to the space about 20 mins after trying to re-enter and
>>>>> said to me " Do you want to go a couplwe blocks away from here and handle
>>>>> this like an adult."
>>>>>
>>>>> Pidgen is claiming that I threatened her and I did tell her that "you
>>>>> need to chill out or some shit is going to happen" but I also clarified by
>>>>> saying "I am not threatening you with any form of violence."
>>>>>
>>>>> Darin is claiming that Babs sexually assaulted someone but Darin did
>>>>> not give any details of what happened.
>>>>>
>>>>> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:00 PM, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods at gmail.com>
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>> Today Pidgen was asked to leave in violation of the safer spaces
>>>>>> policy on an admitted account of sexual assault in the past as well as
>>>>>> recent behaviors of harassment. Daren was asked to leave in violation of
>>>>>> the safer spaces policy by aggressive  behavior (aggressive swearing,
>>>>>> intentional misgendering, inappropriate sexual comments (Told me in an
>>>>>> aggressive way that he liked phone sex, than began to yell at me.) He has
>>>>>> had a history of being banned from spaces for similar behaviors of sexual
>>>>>> harassment and inappropriate behavior.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I would like to begin a mediation process for Daren and I do not feel
>>>>>> safe with him being in the space during such process.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> To my knowledge there is an ongoing mediation between Pidgen and
>>>>>> Centi. that Pidgen has allegedly violated due to harassing behavior. Pidgen
>>>>>> has been banned from several other radical spaces for entitlement problems
>>>>>> - theft - aggressive behaivor - accountability issues.
>>>>>> I do not feel safe in the presences of Pidgen and would call on the
>>>>>> community to permanently ban Pidgen.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
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