25 May
2015
25 May
'15
11:12 p.m.
Elliot, with all due respect, I feel strongly that you should step back
from the role of acting as "enforcer" for the building. I wish that there
was a better distinction between personal problems and community problems
that require community intervention, and I wish, Elliot, that you would
recognize that you have A LOT of personal problems with people everywhere
you go and that the role of the collective is not to make sure that
everyone wants to be your friend. I know that the purpose of this listserve
is not to publicly shame eachother but I am sick of this affecting every
project that you touch. Also I think using the language of "safety" in a
situation like this (that is uncomfortable but not unsafe) is super-
manipulative and will contribute towards people not taking serious words
seriously anymore and its a real problem. Please find a way to share space
and participate in community projects without appointing yourself as
enforcer or making yourself a spokesperson for groups that routinely
disagree with you on your process and analysis. Please just be Elliot, and
please find a way to deal. I am sorry if this hurts you or embarasses you.
Know that I will have your back when it gets real. We can talk more in
person if you like.
Gabby
On May 25, 2015 7:24 PM, "Jenny Ryan" <tunabananas(a)gmail.com> wrote:
If you two *are absolutely unable* to work through
this conflict on your
own, then please email mediation(a)omnicommons.org to request mediation.
Jenny
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On Mon, May 25, 2015 at 7:12 PM, yar <yardenack(a)gmail.com> wrote:
On Mon, May 25, 2015 at 7:07 PM, WIld Cat
<wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com>
wrote:
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No this is a fabrication of the issue she left
something rotten in the
trash
Maybe we should have a separate list for conflicts and mediation. Oh
wait, the Omni already has one:
https://omnicommons.org/lists/listinfo/mediation
Why are you even using sudo-discuss? None of these things even
happened in Sudoroom, they happened elsewhere in the building.
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