26 May
2015
26 May
'15
12:45 a.m.
I'm with gabby on this one.
Eliot, we're here for you if shit's going down, but, people are all
different, have different opinions, and different ways of expressing those
opinions. Sometimes it's better to just let them be, even if they aren't on
your side.
Cheers,
-Adam
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On Mon, May 25, 2015 at 11:12 PM, Gabrielle Silverman <
gabbywingnut(a)gmail.com> wrote:
Elliot, with all due respect, I feel strongly that you
should step back
from the role of acting as "enforcer" for the building. I wish that there
was a better distinction between personal problems and community problems
that require community intervention, and I wish, Elliot, that you would
recognize that you have A LOT of personal problems with people everywhere
you go and that the role of the collective is not to make sure that
everyone wants to be your friend. I know that the purpose of this listserve
is not to publicly shame eachother but I am sick of this affecting every
project that you touch. Also I think using the language of "safety" in a
situation like this (that is uncomfortable but not unsafe) is super-
manipulative and will contribute towards people not taking serious words
seriously anymore and its a real problem. Please find a way to share space
and participate in community projects without appointing yourself as
enforcer or making yourself a spokesperson for groups that routinely
disagree with you on your process and analysis. Please just be Elliot, and
please find a way to deal. I am sorry if this hurts you or embarasses you.
Know that I will have your back when it gets real. We can talk more in
person if you like.
Gabby
On May 25, 2015 7:24 PM, "Jenny Ryan" <tunabananas(a)gmail.com> wrote:
If you two *are absolutely unable* to work
through this conflict on your
own, then please email mediation(a)omnicommons.org to request mediation.
Jenny
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On Mon, May 25, 2015 at 7:12 PM, yar <yardenack(a)gmail.com> wrote:
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On Mon, May 25, 2015 at 7:07 PM, WIld Cat
<wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com>
wrote:
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No this is a fabrication of the issue she left
something rotten in the
trash
Maybe we should have a separate list for conflicts and mediation. Oh
wait, the Omni already has one:
https://omnicommons.org/lists/listinfo/mediation
Why are you even using sudo-discuss? None of these things even
happened in Sudoroom, they happened elsewhere in the building.
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