Re: [sudo-discuss] [omni-mediation] Today 4/4/15: Pidgen and Daren have been temp banned for safer spaces policy violations

I would speak with Darin. I would need to speak with whomever has been working with him in the past first, is there an extant point person/mediator/steward? Plz fwd me contacts or names. tracy I understand your frustrations, and yours as well, cat person, but making the future happen requires a lot of patience! -K On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 5:04 PM, niki &lt;niki.shelley(a)gmail.com&gt; wrote: > Adding the mediation mailing list to this thread in the hopes that > someone will step forward to steward these conflicts towards whatever ends > are in the community's best interest. > > <3 > > Niki > > On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 3:37 PM, WIld Cat &lt;wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com&gt; > wrote: > >> These are community issues not personal issues. >> >> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:53 PM, Tracy Jacobs &lt;kinetical(a)comcast.net&gt; >> wrote: >> >>> Sudoers, >>> >>> Respectfully can I suggest that you find another way to address >>> issues of a personal nature and character assassinations or public shaming >>> other than this public mailing list? Why anyone would want to go to Sudo >>> room after reading this mailing list is beyond my comprehension. And it >>> really is a great place. Can anyone think of another venue for these types >>> of discussions? >>> >>> Tracy >>> On Apr 4, 2015, at 2:41 PM, WIld Cat &lt;wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com&gt; >>> wrote: >>> >>> Daren returned to the space about 20 mins after trying to re-enter >>> and said to me " Do you want to go a couplwe blocks away from here and >>> handle this like an adult." >>> >>> Pidgen is claiming that I threatened her and I did tell her that >>> "you need to chill out or some shit is going to happen" but I also >>> clarified by saying "I am not threatening you with any form of violence." >>> >>> Darin is claiming that Babs sexually assaulted someone but Darin did >>> not give any details of what happened. >>> >>> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:00 PM, WIld Cat < >>> wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com&gt; wrote: >>> >>>> Today Pidgen was asked to leave in violation of the safer spaces >>>> policy on an admitted account of sexual assault in the past as well as >>>> recent behaviors of harassment. Daren was asked to leave in violation of >>>> the safer spaces policy by aggressive behavior (aggressive swearing, >>>> intentional misgendering, inappropriate sexual comments (Told me in an >>>> aggressive way that he liked phone sex, than began to yell at me.) He has >>>> had a history of being banned from spaces for similar behaviors of sexual >>>> harassment and inappropriate behavior. >>>> >>>> I would like to begin a mediation process for Daren and I do not >>>> feel safe with him being in the space during such process. >>>> >>>> To my knowledge there is an ongoing mediation between Pidgen and >>>> Centi. that Pidgen has allegedly violated due to harassing behavior. Pidgen >>>> has been banned from several other radical spaces for entitlement problems >>>> - theft - aggressive behaivor - accountability issues. >>>> I do not feel safe in the presences of Pidgen and would call on the >>>> community to permanently ban Pidgen. >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>> _______________________________________________ >>> sudo-discuss mailing list >>> sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >>> https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss >>> >>> >>> >> >> _______________________________________________ >> sudo-discuss mailing list >> sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >> https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss >> >> > > _______________________________________________ > mediation mailing list > mediation(a)lists.omnicommons.org > https://omnicommons.org/lists/listinfo/mediation > >