Re: [sudo-discuss] [omni-mediation] Today 4/4/15: Pidgen and Daren have been temp banned for safer spaces policy violations

Adding the mediation mailing list to this thread in the hopes that someone will step forward to steward these conflicts towards whatever ends are in the community's best interest. <3 Niki On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 3:37 PM, WIld Cat &lt;wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com&gt; wrote: > These are community issues not personal issues. > > On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:53 PM, Tracy Jacobs &lt;kinetical(a)comcast.net&gt; > wrote: > >> Sudoers, >> >> Respectfully can I suggest that you find another way to address >> issues of a personal nature and character assassinations or public shaming >> other than this public mailing list? Why anyone would want to go to Sudo >> room after reading this mailing list is beyond my comprehension. And it >> really is a great place. Can anyone think of another venue for these types >> of discussions? >> >> Tracy >> On Apr 4, 2015, at 2:41 PM, WIld Cat &lt;wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com&gt; >> wrote: >> >> Daren returned to the space about 20 mins after trying to re-enter >> and said to me " Do you want to go a couplwe blocks away from here and >> handle this like an adult." >> >> Pidgen is claiming that I threatened her and I did tell her that "you >> need to chill out or some shit is going to happen" but I also clarified by >> saying "I am not threatening you with any form of violence." >> >> Darin is claiming that Babs sexually assaulted someone but Darin did >> not give any details of what happened. >> >> On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:00 PM, WIld Cat &lt;wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com >> > wrote: >> >>> Today Pidgen was asked to leave in violation of the safer spaces >>> policy on an admitted account of sexual assault in the past as well as >>> recent behaviors of harassment. Daren was asked to leave in violation of >>> the safer spaces policy by aggressive behavior (aggressive swearing, >>> intentional misgendering, inappropriate sexual comments (Told me in an >>> aggressive way that he liked phone sex, than began to yell at me.) He has >>> had a history of being banned from spaces for similar behaviors of sexual >>> harassment and inappropriate behavior. >>> >>> I would like to begin a mediation process for Daren and I do not >>> feel safe with him being in the space during such process. >>> >>> To my knowledge there is an ongoing mediation between Pidgen and >>> Centi. that Pidgen has allegedly violated due to harassing behavior. Pidgen >>> has been banned from several other radical spaces for entitlement problems >>> - theft - aggressive behaivor - accountability issues. >>> I do not feel safe in the presences of Pidgen and would call on the >>> community to permanently ban Pidgen. >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >> _______________________________________________ >> sudo-discuss mailing list >> sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >> https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss >> >> >> > > _______________________________________________ > sudo-discuss mailing list > sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org > https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss > > _______________________________________________ mediation mailing list mediation(a)lists.omnicommons.org https://omnicommons.org/lists/listinfo/mediation