If you two *are absolutely unable* to work through this conflict on your own, then please email mediation(a)omnicommons.org to request mediation. Jenny Help open a people-powered common space in Oakland, California! https://omnicommons.org/donate `~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~` "Technology is the campfire around which we tell our stories." -Laurie Anderson "Storytelling reveals meaning without committing the error of defining it." -Hannah Arendt "To define is to kill. To suggest is to create." -Stéphane Mallarmé ~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~` On Mon, May 25, 2015 at 7:12 PM, yar <yardenack(a)gmail.com> wrote: _______________________________________________ sudo-discuss mailing list sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org https://sudoroom.org/lists/listinfo/sudo-discuss

Elliot, with all due respect, I feel strongly that you should step back from the role of acting as "enforcer" for the building. I wish that there was a better distinction between personal problems and community problems that require community intervention, and I wish, Elliot, that you would recognize that you have A LOT of personal problems with people everywhere you go and that the role of the collective is not to make sure that everyone wants to be your friend. I know that the purpose of this listserve is not to publicly shame eachother but I am sick of this affecting every project that you touch. Also I think using the language of "safety" in a situation like this (that is uncomfortable but not unsafe) is super- manipulative and will contribute towards people not taking serious words seriously anymore and its a real problem. Please find a way to share space and participate in community projects without appointing yourself as enforcer or making yourself a spokesperson for groups that routinely disagree with you on your process and analysis. Please just be Elliot, and please find a way to deal. I am sorry if this hurts you or embarasses you. Know that I will have your back when it gets real. We can talk more in person if you like. Gabby On May 25, 2015 7:24 PM, "Jenny Ryan" &lt;tunabananas(a)gmail.com <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','tunabananas@gmail.com');>> wrote: > If you two *are absolutely unable* to work through this conflict on your > own, then please email mediation(a)omnicommons.org > <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','mediation@omnicommons.org');> to request > mediation. > > Jenny > > Help open a people-powered common space in Oakland, California! > https://omnicommons.org/donate > > `~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~` > "Technology is the campfire around which we tell our stories." > -Laurie Anderson > > "Storytelling reveals meaning without committing the error of defining > it." > -Hannah Arendt > > "To define is to kill. To suggest is to create." > -Stéphane Mallarmé > ~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~` > > On Mon, May 25, 2015 at 7:12 PM, yar &lt;yardenack(a)gmail.com > <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','yardenack@gmail.com');>> wrote: > >> On Mon, May 25, 2015 at 7:07 PM, WIld Cat &lt;wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com >> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','wildcatofthewoods@gmail.com');>> wrote: >> > No this is a fabrication of the issue she left something rotten in the >> trash >> >> Maybe we should have a separate list for conflicts and mediation. Oh >> wait, the Omni already has one: >> https://omnicommons.org/lists/listinfo/mediation >> >> Why are you even using sudo-discuss? None of these things even >> happened in Sudoroom, they happened elsewhere in the building. >> _______________________________________________ >> sudo-discuss mailing list >> sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >> <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','sudo-discuss@lists.sudoroom.org');> >> https://sudoroom.org/lists/listinfo/sudo-discuss >> > > > _______________________________________________ > sudo-discuss mailing list > sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org > <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','sudo-discuss@lists.sudoroom.org');> > https://sudoroom.org/lists/listinfo/sudo-discuss > >