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Call for Auction Items!!! Help Fund sudo!

by Rachel Wolfsohn

sudo-ers of all realms! This is a call for auction items! Sudo's May-Day Fundraiser Party & Potluck will have an auction component Whether you have something uber useful, or something minimally prize-like or an odd or end that could be someone's treasure or a ridiculously rare thing-a-ma-bob if you're willing or able to let it go, let's auction it off to fund sudo! *~~this will be a silent auction* *~~you do not have to attend the party to participate in the auction* To Auction An Item:… [View More]

10 years, 2 months

Arduino Bootloader on the ESP8266

by Adam Munich

Someone managed to cram the arduino bootloader on the ESP8266 https://makezine.com/2015/04/01/esp8266-5-microcontroller-wi-fi-now-arduino… Yup. $3 wifi arduino. $1.50 in aliexpress bulk. So who's going to wifi-mesh all of oakland? --- Aperture Systems: Redefining Radiography - http://aperture.systems/ http://adammunich.com/ - Cell: +1-650-452-0554 Be • knowledgeable • social • patient • fearless • compassionate • fun • humble • forgiving. Be a leader

10 years, 2 months

major purge of machine tools, hand tools, necessary and unnecessary stuff - Saturday 10 to 4 (fwd)

by Jake

http://sfbay.craigslist.org/eby/gms/4970294855.html Unused & used wrenches by: Snap-On, Armstrong, Proto, Fairmount, Bonney Thin Pattern Hydraulic Wrenches up to 2 1/4" 12-Point Flare Nut Wrenches up to 1 3/16" Crows Foot Wrenches (12-Point and standard) up to 2 1/4" Maggi Junior 640 Radial Arm Saw 4 h.p. (220v/3ph) J & L Optical Comparator TC-10 with multiple stages Sunnen Honing Machine MBH-625D Avey Sensitive Drill Press Model #1/2 Heavy MA-8 (220v/3ph) Omni Grind 6x12 surface … [View More]

10 years, 2 months

FW: The White House Announces a Week of Making this June 12-18

by Mitch Altman

Does someone at Noisebridge and/or Sudo Room want to be part of the National Week of Making? If so, there's a link at the bottom of the email from the White House (copied below), but which I'll add here, too: https://www.whitehouse.gov/nation-of-makers I think it would be really cool to be "officially" involved. But there are two things that make me uncomfortable: 1) "STEM" is a term created by the US military -- it leaves out the very important "A", which many have added to make it … [View More]more relevant, and moves things away from the military: STEAM 2) There is involvement from various government agencies, many of which are cool, but one of which is: Department of Homeland Security. Best, Mitch. -------- Forwarded Message -------- Subject: The White House Announces a Week of Making this June 12-18 Date: Thu, 9 Apr 2015 17:07:12 +0000 From: Santoso, Stephanie <Stephanie_M_Santoso(a)ostp.eop.gov> To: Mitch Altman Hi All, I wanted to make sure that you saw the following exciting news about the Week of Making and the National Maker Faire! Announcing a Week of Making this June 12-18 By Tom Kalil and Stephanie Santoso Last year, on June 18, President Obama hosted the first-ever White House Maker Faire and issued a call to action that “every company, every college, every community, every citizen joins us as we lift up makers and builders and doers across the country.” By democratizing the tools and skills necessary to design and make just about anything, Maker-related events and activities can inspire more people to pursue careers in design, advanced manufacturing, and the related fields of science, technology, engineering and mathematics (STEM) and possibly take their creations to the next level and become entrepreneurs. Today, in preparation of the one-year anniversary of last year’s Faire, we are excited to announce that the White House will celebrate a “Week of Making” this summer from June 12-18. The Week will coincide with the National Maker Faire here in D.C., featuring makers from across the country and will include participation by federal agencies including: the Department of Education, National Science Foundation, U.S. Agency for International Development, U.S. Small Business Administration, Institute of Museum and Library Services, National Institute of Standards and Technology, NASA, Corporation for National and Community Service, Department of Homeland Security and the Smithsonian. At last year’s Faire, President Obama welcomed people of all ages who are funneling their ingenuity into amazing projects, developing creative solutions to important problems and bringing their innovations to market. He met Lindsay Lawlor, who built a 17-foot, talking robotic giraffe named Russell, and he met teenage sisters Camille and Genevieve Betty, whose motto is “Who needs a paper route when you can start your own robotics company?” He talked to entrepreneurs such as Marc Roth, who was homeless in San Francisco before taking classes in design and prototyping at a digital fabrication studio and maker space. After only several months of classes, Marc was able to open his own custom laser-cutting business. As the President put it, “Today’s D.I.Y is tomorrow’s Made in America.” Lindsay Lawlor introduces President Obama to Russell, the Electric Giraffe at last year’s White House Maker Faire. (Photo Credit: Pete Souza). The President announced a large number of commitments made by the Federal government, mayors, educational institutions, companies, and non-profit organizations to expand opportunities for engaging students STEM through making, supporting makers who want to become entrepreneurs and make it easier for individuals to learn 21st century design and fabrication skills around the country. Twenty-one Federal agencies committed a suite of services for people interested in engineering and manufacturing, including expanded access to start-up grants, making it easier for makers to manufacture their products domestically, and business mentoring and training. More than 150 colleges and universities, over 125 libraries and more than 90 mayors pledged to take steps to help advance making in the United States. To continue to expand upon this effort, here are some ways that you or your organization can help: · Individuals can volunteer to mentor and share their skills by hosting workshops or classes in areas of their community that have fewer opportunities for designing, developing and prototyping projects. · K-12 school districts can create opportunities for interactive, hands-on STEM learning in and outside of the classroom. Schools can also establish maker spaces to empower students to design and build, and solve real-world problems. · Colleges and universities can establish on-campus spaces that are accessible to students, faculty and the broader local community to tinker, design, build and invent. They can share best practices with other educational institutions through networks and communities of practice. · Companies can encourage making in their community through design and engineering and help designers, inventors and other aspiring entrepreneurs create American jobs by navigating the transition from prototyping to manufacturing. · Mayors can join the Mayors Maker Challenge and encourage companies, foundations, non-profits, schools, libraries and museums to get involved with product development and manufacturing. Local leaders can also back initiatives that make it easier for entrepreneurs to manufacture their products locally. And no matter who you are, you can get involved by hosting an event, workshop or activity during the Week of Making in your community or submit your project for the National Maker Faire. By working together, we can provide every child and adult in America with the tools, technologies and resources they need to be part of the creative process and invent, create, and make a better, stronger, and more innovative future. If you or your organization has plans to support students, inventors, designers, builders and other makers in your community, let us know by completing this form. We look forward to announcing progress on the President’s call to action during the Week of Making. You may also contact us at maker(a)ostp.gov. Tom Kalil is Deputy Director for Technology and Innovation at the White House Office of Science and Technology Policy. Stephanie Santoso is Senior Advisor for Making at the White House Office of Science and Technology Policy. Stephanie Santoso Senior Policy Advisor for Making White House Office of Science and Technology Policy ssantoso(a)ostp.eop.gov [View Less]

10 years, 2 months

Sudo Room

by Oakland Business Recognition

Sudo Room has been selected for the 2015 Best of Oakland Awards for Volunteer Organization. For details and more information please view our website: 2015 Best of Oakland Awards - Volunteer Organization If you are unable to view the link above, please copy and paste the following into your web browser: http://oakland.domestin.com/sqx5pq3_SUDO-ROOM Best Regards, Oakland Business Recognition This email was sent to: sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org. Remove - to be safely … [View More]

10 years, 2 months

4/8 Meeting Notes

by Jenny Ryan

Recorded for posterity at: https://sudoroom.org/wiki/Meeting_Notes_2015-04-08 Sudoroom Meeting April 8, 2015 =Intros= * remote-jenny * ryan * juul * wrought * st. nic * rachel * elliot Icebreaker: What have you broken recently? (the question is also broken) * Juul: I broke a server. It was bad. :) * Adam: I broke my self confidence again **ryan: aw * ryan: i managed to break one of the childproof pill bottle, apparently if you break them, they're not childproof anymore :) * rachel: i broke a … [View More]cup. but there are other cups * remote-jenny: i broke up a shitton of great potting soil this morning and dumped it in a garden bed :)) * Matt: my patience is broken * Sean F: the last thing i remember breaking was a my lock, i lost my key and i had to break it to get into my backpack * elliot: i broke a nail :) that hurt :( * jebari (opal): probably the last thing i broke was a promise, i know that's kinda vague, but... **ryan: i was waiting for someone to say it * joel (late arrival): I broke the external battery charger for my cell phone * ben (late arrival): =Announcements= ? = Conflict updates = ==Rayc== * Ryan (mediator between rayc): rayc has not contacted Ryan. ==Nic== *Elliot does not want to share space with him, non-engagement with st.nic, would like the SSP to be enforced w/ the language he's used and people he's hurt in the space * juul: you are willing to do mediation as long as you don't have to meet with him in person? * elliot: yes, and with the temporary band that that mediation is done offsite, * matt: both people off-site? * elliot: it's my understandin that he's banned pending mediation * matt: it's not ambiguous, it's exactly what's happening, they're banned during mediation * rachel: here here ==Doc== *Rachel: Doc has not contacted and did not show up last time, but I was 15m late, though I notified people. I think it's worth calling, but the longer the more time there is to process and grow before going through with mediation. I will call again *elliot..... *matt: i think this is heresay and we should discuss it at the appropriate time *rachel: agreed *juul: okay * Does Doc have a Conflict Steward? We really need to have both roles filled. The Steward ensures conflict mediation meetings happen and that they're documented, and helps give updates * Not yet, does anyone volunteer? ==Darin and Elliot== * Joe from FnB is mediating (this is not a sudo conflict). * Who is conflict steward? Helen? ==Kwe and Darin== * not a sudo conflict * juul is mediating * matt is conflict steward =Finances= * $461.10/wk on Gratipay (needs to be $625 minimum) * $1,614.64 in Internet Credit Union acct * Rent has been paid for April, $184.27 * does everyone need to consent on a < $30 legal fees for taxes to get cleaned up? ** we don't have quorum but yeah: go ahead (juul) ** i don't think so, your call exchequer (juul) ==Gratipay/IACU Issue== * No deposits received for the month of March: 3/5, 3/12, 3/19, 3/26 =Sudo Proposals= ==Fundraiser party, already!!== * Suggested dates: May 1 (in tandem with SPAZ soundsystem in the basement and First Friday art in the ballroom [no performance planned though, we could do an open mic / 5 minutes of fame type of thing]) - sorry am now discussing the front desk proposal below * everyone: we should have it in actual sudo room, not ballroom * ryan: I can write an invitation * juul: we should request both cash donations and donations of time in the next two weeks to help with renovation/construction * hightechpyro(a)gmail.com has a canon pixma pro something printer than can print on thick things like tiles. If anyone wants to make things for the fundraiser, contact him! * Ryan suggests getting stickers for sudo and using the printer to make coasters. * 15th is deadline for party planning: https://pad.riseup.net/p/partypad ** FUCK YEAH PARTYPAD!!1 ==Sudo Proposal: Buy Stickers== * Get design from: https://sudoroom.org/wiki/Logo * Responsibilibuddy :P - Jenny/juul =Omni Proposals= == Discussion of proposed mural designs == * General feedback discussion, remaining sensitive to everyone involved, not rushing the process. * Links / References for potential improvements: ** Possible to use brighter tones of the same/similar colors? *** e.g. refer to Tom Killion style (japanese coloring technique): http://tomkillion.com/gallery/show?keyword=tam ==Front Door Station Proposal== * pad.riseup.net/p/omninom - rachel - https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B8a4XV1TCQ8XTk5ra1RmY2tkWVhlUnVfZzBJVi1YX2… ** this is being rerouted to a preliminary conversation between Welcoming Committee and La Commune. it has been removed from the pad as it was not consensed to be there by Welcoming WG. - jenny **okay, everyone in welcoming seemed all behind do-acratically doing it, Niki at first, but then she alerted me to la commune's concerns ** i for one am totally behind it, that's not the point. we should operate by full consensus whenever possible, and bring things to delegates for consensus once it's fully vetted. **to work with la commune before posting it to the meeting? ** yeah! i just sent an email with your proposal to welcoming and la commune folks <3 **yeah, i wanted to send it to delegates for that reason, but you're totes right, this is smooter and specifically respectful ** btw i love that you made a fucking sketchup model ;) **thanks :) ==New Members== * https://sudoroom.org/membership * See emails to members =Action Items= * See partypad :) * Need conflict steward for Doc, Darin(omni not sudo), ** Doc and Darin or Elliot need to email mediation(a)omnicommons.org, can optionally suggest a preferred steward (they are not obligated to commit) * get taxes cleaned up * remove Newbie Night - jenny - just edited it to end today (4/8) -- Jenny http://jennyryan.net http://sudomesh.org http://thevirtualcampfire.org http://technomadic.tumblr.com `~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~` "Technology is the campfire around which we tell our stories." -Laurie Anderson "Storytelling reveals meaning without committing the error of defining it." -Hannah Arendt "To define is to kill. To suggest is to create." -Stéphane Mallarmé ~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~`~` [View Less]

10 years, 2 months

Re: [sudo-discuss] [omni-mediation] Today 4/4/15: Pidgen and Daren have been temp banned for safer spaces policy violations

by yar

On Wed, Apr 8, 2015 at 2:25 PM, Patrick O'Doherty <p(a)trickod.com> wrote: > Not to armchair-hackerspace but this thread is turning rapidly into > community poison. I think our community is strong enough to handle this and ignore one thread if they're not interested in it. I don't see the point in people writing more emails about how someone else should write fewer emails ... oops.

10 years, 2 months

this week in tech (4/7/15) - Bitcoin Foundation is “effectively bankrupt”

by Louis Huang

Bitcoin Foundation is “effectively bankrupt,” board member says http://arstechnica.com/business/2015/04/bitcoin-foundation-is-effectively-b… Union Bank of Switzerland to Open Blockchain Lab http://www.coinbuzz.com/2015/04/03/union-bank-of-switzerland-to-open-blockc… The Problem With Using End-to-End Web Crypto as a Cure-All https://www.indolering.com/e2e-web-crypto No, These Biohackers Can’t Give Themselves Infrared Vision http://www.wired.com/2015/04/no-biohackers-cant-give-infrared-… [View More]

10 years, 2 months

Re: [sudo-discuss] Today 4/4/15: Pidgen and Daren have been temp banned for safer spaces policy violations

by WIld Cat

Here Is what Centi sent me about Pidgeon's Violation of the Non-engagement agreement: Pigeon and I completed a conflict mediation process at the Omni facilitated by Jenny and Ryan. The outcome was a mutual non-engagement agreement. Pigeon has admitted to me, and others, to having sexually assaulted my friend Charity in 2012 at a homeless shelter in Portland. The last time I saw Charity was several months ago, she was pregnant and living on the street in Eugene. When I was taking a shit in … [View More]the upstairs bathroom at the Omni, Pigeon knocked on the door to check if someone is inside. I responded that I would be out in a minute. Pigeon, then wrote a series of messages on tape that included 'Knock thrice to banish entitlement demons', and posted them on the bathroom door, directed at me. Pigeon's former girlfriend Maria, disclosed that Pigeon made posts on twitter such as "Everyone at that house should be stabbed and shot" which included me, along with other violent suggestions Pigeon took a picture of me on her phone, directly outside the Omni last week, when I was walking inside the Omni Recently, Pigeon has made hostile and provocative sound gestures when I have walked past her in the Omni When I was at the Omni the entire day doing research on the computer in the Sudo Room, I walked outside to smoke a cigarette, and left my back pack. Pigeon was sitting nearby the whole time I was there, and then filled the bottom of my bag with rotten eggs and food waste, which stained my books and personal items while I was outside and my bag was unattended. My bag still smells. Pigeon took pictures of me on her phone in the social services office. Pigeon attempted to get Charlie fired from her job by contacting her employer. Pigeon has threatened and chased Dante with a hammer. Pigeon has been exposed, within groups, for spreading lies and false rumors about select people. Including, false information that has placed individuals within dangerous, high-risk, and unsafe positions. Pigeon has recklessly and indiscriminately made claims against groups of people including, transphobia and transbashing, despite contrary evidence. Pigeons chronic behavior has damaged, neutralized, compromised, and interfered with constructive work and a matrix of social relationships. On Tue, Apr 7, 2015 at 3:29 AM, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com> wrote: > "* If you don't believe people can change, you don't believe in RJ or > TJ, **and I would LOVE to hear your alternative**to my eyes the only > other options are punishment or annihilation, like the state does,** if > you're really radical, you'll seek alternative forms of resolution** besides > exile, punishment and "training" people, * > *whenever possible. I do believe people can change but sometimes you need > to draw a line and make sure that the mediation process isn't being abused > by the perpetrator. Comparing my forms of dealing with accountability to > the State and it's prison/jail industrial complex is gravely offensive to > me. I have been to jail before for being homeless - ( 3 charges of > tresspassing) - stopping cops from beating people up or using a car to > crash into a crowd -( 2 charges obstructing a peace officer)- getting > crashed into by a cop - (assault on an officer- charges dropped) stopping > the earth from being destroyed and otherwise homeless peoples camps by > blockade ( 2 charges obstruction of a roadway) Every time was arrested I > endured beatings as well as mental and once extreme physical torture. > Comparing my process to such a brutal process as the state's is really > fucked up.* > > NOT ONCE have I seen you actually pursue mediation. No one has asked me > to attend a meeting or anything but when ever people have wanted to talk to > me I have stopped what I was doing to talk about accountability issues. > This is pursuing mediation. I also took the ban proposals to the sudo > meetings and have an informal mediation with FNB Joe. > > *IN FACT WildCAt is currently refusing to participate in more than one > mediation, **and while in some cases i actually agree with that other > person being banned, and see the issues clear** my problem wtih this is > not about that person being banned,** I often think WildCat is right,* > * but it's about THE PROCESS AND RESPECTING IT Not wanting to engage with > people I do not feel safe around is not failing to mediate. Like I have > said no one asked me to go to a follow up meeeting.* > > *You Still Have To Go To Mediation **In Some Case In Your Life, Why > would i be talking on this list if i wasnt interested in mediation* > *If You Recognize The Process At All - * Rachel I followed process by > emailing y'all and I followed the steps of the Safer Spaces policy: > > "These are some examples of unacceptable behavior. This list is by no > means exhaustive. Harassment includes but is not limited to: > > - *Deliberate intimidation - Babs and I * > - *Deliberate misgendering or use of ‘dead’ or rejected names - > Calling me a dude and man with aggressive and accentuaded tone implying it > was intentional misgendering* > - *Threats of violence - Telling me that we should walk a couple of > blocks to settle it like adults implying he wanted to fight.* > - *Gratuitous or off-topic sexual images or behaviour in spaces where > they’re not appropriate - Telling me he liked phone sex the yelling at me > about how I needed to get off of my phone in sudo room. rather than asking > me calmly,* > > 4.‎ ‏Consequences‭ ‬of‭ ‬Unacceptable‭ ‬Behavior > > Unacceptable‭ ‬behavior‭ ‬from‭ ‬any‭one at the Omni,‭ ‬including‭ > ‬sponsors‭ ‬and‭ ‬those‭ ‬with‭ ‬decision-making‭ ‬authority,‭ ‬will‭ ‬not‭ > ‬be‭ ‬tolerated. > > Anyone‭ ‬asked‭ ‬to‭ ‬stop‭ ‬unacceptable‭ ‬behavior‭ ‬is‭ ‬expected‭ ‬to‭ > ‬comply‭ ‬immediately. If‭ ‬someone‭ ‬engages‭ ‬in‭ ‬unacceptable‭ > ‬behavior,‭* anyone* at the Omni‬‭ should feel empowered to take action > to address the situation (i.e., talk to the person involved, point out > violent or threatening behavior, *ask them to leave the space*, etc.). In > cases where someone's safety is at risk, a temporary ban may be put in > place until the Omni's conflict resolution process can be followed to > resolution. ‬ > > > 5.‎ ‏If‭ ‬You‭ ‬Witness‭ ‬or‭ ‬Are‭ ‬Subject‭ ‬to‭ ‬Unacceptable‭ ‬Behavior > > This section needs to be fleshed out more - please see it as a draft in > progress. > > - *Everyone should feel empowered to confront aggressive individuals, > but we recommend that you do not approach a potentially violent conflict > without another community member, preferably a core organizer, co-present.* > > _______________________________ > > *If You're Willing To Work On It " - I am working my ass off on it.* > > *BTW I talked to people who lived at Hellarity (susie and enola) whom > confirmed that Darin was asked to leave multiple times for sexually > innapripriate behaivor but keeped showing up. * > > *Also he was banned from the G-spot Squat immediately after for sexually > grinding on/groping a person during a party which Susie Q and I were at. > (more that I have not talked to) * > > > > On Tue, Apr 7, 2015 at 2:56 AM, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com> > wrote: > >> I think Rachel is\ blowing my proposals out of proportion by saying >> >> "*What would you do with them? * >> *Put them all in one country? * >> *Kind of like a concentration of them?* >> * Like a camp? Kill them all off? **All bad ideas." * >> >> I am not saying he is banned I am discussing proposals for a ban and a >> constructive resolution. I as a non-member can still call on the safer >> space policy to have someone temp banned from the space to establish >> safety. No one has asked that I go to a mediation meeting I just said that >> I didn't want to talk to any of these people directly. >> >> >> "* If you don't believe people can change, you don't believe in RJ or >> TJ, * >> *and I would LOVE to hear your alternative* >> *to my eyes the only other options are punishment or annihilation, like >> the state does,* >> * if you're really radical, you'll seek alternative forms of resolution* >> * besides exile, punishment and "training" people, * >> *whenever possible. * >> >> *NOT ONCE have I seen you actually pursue mediation. * >> >> *IN FACT WildCAt is currently refusing to participate in more than one >> mediation, * >> *and while in some cases i actually agree with that other person being >> banned, and see the issues clear* >> * my problem wtih this is not about that person being banned,* >> * I often think WildCat is right,* >> * but it's about THE PROCESS AND RESPECTING IT* >> >> *You Still Have To Go To Mediation * >> *In Some Case In Your Life, * >> *If You Recognize The Process At All* >> >> *If You're Willing To Work On It, "* >> >> >> Rachel I followed process by emailing y'all and I followed the steps of >> the Safer Spaces policy: >> >> "These are some examples of unacceptable behavior. This list is by no >> means exhaustive. Harassment includes but is not limited to: >> >> - *Deliberate intimidation - Babs and I * >> - *Deliberate misgendering or use of ‘dead’ or rejected names - >> Calling me a dude and man with aggressive and accentuaded tone implying it >> was intentional misgendering* >> - *Threats of violence - Telling me that we should walk a couple of >> blocks to settle it like adults implying he wanted to fight.* >> - *Gratuitous or off-topic sexual images or behaviour in spaces where >> they’re not appropriate - Telling me he liked phone sex the yelling at me >> about how I needed to get off of my phone in sudo room. rather than asking >> me calmly,* >> >> 4.‎ ‏Consequences‭ ‬of‭ ‬Unacceptable‭ ‬Behavior >> >> Unacceptable‭ ‬behavior‭ ‬from‭ ‬any‭one at the Omni,‭ ‬including‭ >> ‬sponsors‭ ‬and‭ ‬those‭ ‬with‭ ‬decision-making‭ ‬authority,‭ ‬will‭ ‬not‭ >> ‬be‭ ‬tolerated. >> >> Anyone‭ ‬asked‭ ‬to‭ ‬stop‭ ‬unacceptable‭ ‬behavior‭ ‬is‭ ‬expected‭ >> ‬to‭ ‬comply‭ ‬immediately. If‭ ‬someone‭ ‬engages‭ ‬in‭ ‬unacceptable‭ >> ‬behavior,‭* anyone* at the Omni‬‭ should feel empowered to take action >> to address the situation (i.e., talk to the person involved, point out >> violent or threatening behavior, *ask them to leave the space*, etc.). >> In cases where someone's safety is at risk, a temporary ban may be put in >> place until the Omni's conflict resolution process can be followed to >> resolution. ‬ >> >> >> 5.‎ ‏If‭ ‬You‭ ‬Witness‭ ‬or‭ ‬Are‭ ‬Subject‭ ‬to‭ ‬Unacceptable‭ >> ‬Behavior >> >> This section needs to be fleshed out more - please see it as a draft in >> progress. >> >> - *Everyone should feel empowered to confront aggressive individuals, >> but we recommend that you do not approach a potentially violent conflict >> without another community member, preferably a core organizer, co-present.* >> >> >> _________________________________________________________________________________ >> >> >> >> On Mon, Apr 6, 2015 at 3:25 PM, <hol(a)gaskill.com> wrote: >> >>> friendly reminder - our conflict resolution process was born out of a >>> desire to keep conflicts from consuming the time and energy of the whole >>> community, especially those that are not involved in the conflict and do >>> not have bandwidth to help mediate as an impartial party - this includes >>> general meetings and discussion forums >>> >>> >>> On 2015-04-06 14:02, Rachel Wolfsohn wrote: >>> >>> I'm sorry, Torrie, I really am....sudoconsensus may be needed? >>>> On Mon, Apr 06, 2015 at 1:27 PM, Torrie Fischer < >>>> tdfischer(a)hackerbots.net> wrote: >>>> >>>> This is very not important to me because I don't want to read this on >>>>> sudo >>>>> discuss so I'm unsubscribing from sudo discuss for a while because >>>>> everyone >>>>> keeps including sudo-discuss as if it somehow makes everything better. >>>>> >>>>> On Monday, April 06, 2015 11:59:40 AM Rachel Wolfsohn wrote: >>>>> >>>>>> This is very important to me, because I said I wouldn't keep >>>>>> including sudo >>>>>> discuss, and now i'm going back on that >>>>>> but WildCat does keep including sudo-discuss, >>>>>> so I feel like I can't leave it at some long email to one side bias, >>>>>> whether mine or not >>>>>> so I'm responding to sudo discuss >>>>>> to be heard by the group who is already hearing this >>>>>> >>>>>> sigh, i'm sorry, but I'm upset now.... >>>>>> >>>>>> *People NEED to be given a chance to change. * >>>>>> *Just because you knew someone for a long time and saw problematic >>>>>> behavior >>>>>> before doesn't mean they can't come to a new place, * >>>>>> *and a reformed community, * >>>>>> *where they can try to learn and grow. * >>>>>> >>>>>> *If people are not given a chance to grow what would you do with >>>>>> them?* >>>>>> >>>>>> * If you don't believe people can change, you don't believe in RJ or >>>>>> TJ, * >>>>>> *and I would LOVE to hear your alternative* >>>>>> *to my eyes the only other options are punishment or annihilation, >>>>>> like the >>>>>> state does,* >>>>>> * if you're really radical, you'll seek alternative forms of >>>>>> resolution* >>>>>> * besides exile, punishment and "training" people, * >>>>>> *whenever possible. * >>>>>> >>>>>> *NOT ONCE have I seen you actually pursue mediation. * >>>>>> >>>>>> *IN FACT WildCAt is currently refusing to participate in more than one >>>>>> mediation, * >>>>>> *and while in some cases i actually agree with that other person being >>>>>> banned, and see the issues clear* >>>>>> * my problem wtih this is not about that person being banned,* >>>>>> * I often think WildCat is right,* >>>>>> * but it's about THE PROCESS AND RESPECTING IT* >>>>>> >>>>>> *You Still Have To Go To Mediation * >>>>>> *In Some Case In Your Life, * >>>>>> *If You Recognize The Process At All* >>>>>> >>>>>> *If You're Willing To Work On It, * >>>>>> >>>>>> *The Refusal Of Mediation Is There To Keep People Safe* >>>>>> * In Dire Circumstances * >>>>>> *Not In Any Case You Want* >>>>>> * And Every Case All The Time* >>>>>> * Because You Feel Like It And It's Your Privilege* >>>>>> >>>>>> *I don't feel like you're respecting that process....* >>>>>> >>>>>> PERSONALLY I feel: >>>>>> Exile is not a real option for the world. If someone is continuously >>>>>> exiled >>>>>> and not educated and transforming, they will have no where else to >>>>>> go. This >>>>>> is part of the world, you can't just close yourself off from it and >>>>>> ignore >>>>>> people >>>>>> >>>>>> *If you want it to get better, really get better, judging people and >>>>>> pushing them out is not the way to actually help it* >>>>>> >>>>>> *What would you do with them? * >>>>>> *Put them all in one country? * >>>>>> *Kind of like a concentration of them?* >>>>>> * Like a camp? Kill them all off? **All bad ideas. * >>>>>> >>>>>> *We need to help people grow, and * >>>>>> *if you consider yourself an organizer * >>>>>> *or a helper of the world* >>>>>> * it IS your job to help people grow a* >>>>>> *nd give people another chance, * >>>>>> *provided they seek new conditions that will faciiltate growth* >>>>>> >>>>>> *It has to come from them. Yes.* >>>>>> *And it is coming from Darin, * >>>>>> *however slowly he's learning* >>>>>> >>>>>> Btw "WildCat" You are not yet a member of sudo yet. >>>>>> And you're scaring people, >>>>>> with all your bans in a row all of a sudden, >>>>>> >>>>>> now that you think you have power >>>>>> >>>>>> *i'm not quitting, but this email put me back over, i'm taking another >>>>>> break.* >>>>>> >>>>>> On Mon, Apr 6, 2015 at 11:39 AM, Cere Misc <cere.misc(a)gmail.com> >>>>>> wrote: >>>>>> >>>>>>> PLEASE TAKE THIS OFF THE SUDO-DISCUSS LIST! >>>>>>> >>>>>>> On Mon, Apr 6, 2015 at 11:32 AM, WIld Cat < >>>>>>> wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com> >>>>>>> >>>>>>> wrote: >>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Also with that one month ban I feel that from then on there would >>>>>>>> need to >>>>>>>> be zero tolerance for any of these behaviors to continue. Last time >>>>>>>> I saw >>>>>>>> him he challenged me to a fight by saying " do you want to walk a >>>>>>>> couple >>>>>>>> of >>>>>>>> blocks away and handle this like an adult" and my response was to >>>>>>>> walk >>>>>>>> away.. someone brought up to me that I was causing drama by drawing >>>>>>>> the >>>>>>>> line with these people but what folks need to understand is that >>>>>>>> each of >>>>>>>> these people have been going through conflict mediation in this >>>>>>>> space so >>>>>>>> the drama is theirs not mine. I should not be the one to blame for >>>>>>>> the >>>>>>>> taking a stance against the problems these people are causing. >>>>>>>> Though to >>>>>>>> be >>>>>>>> accountable in dealing with peoples issues I will gather more >>>>>>>> members of >>>>>>>> the space to address them. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> On Monday, April 6, 2015, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com> >>>>>>>> wrote: >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> So I have known Darin for years and he has been called out for all >>>>>>>>> of >>>>>>>>> this behavior before and still hasn't learned. In terms of him >>>>>>>>> misgendering >>>>>>>>> me it seemed malicious because he accentuated " man" there were >>>>>>>>> several >>>>>>>>> witnesses to his extremely aggressive behavior that was a defensive >>>>>>>>> response to me calmly asking why he was yelling at Babs. sexual >>>>>>>>> harassment >>>>>>>>> is not OK. I don't think you can speak for the other people who >>>>>>>>> have >>>>>>>>> called >>>>>>>>> him out for inappropriate flirting. I had the conflict mediated by >>>>>>>>> Joe >>>>>>>>> but >>>>>>>>> but still just acts the same to different people. I would propose a >>>>>>>>> month >>>>>>>>> ban at least so he gets that its not being accountable will have >>>>>>>>> serious >>>>>>>>> consequences. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> On Sunday, April 5, 2015, Rachel Wolfsohn <rawjnana(a)gmail.com> >>>>>>>>> wrote: >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> This is the last email I will include sudodisxuss on for this >>>>>>>>>> thread... >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> Darin is currently undergoing mediation, and should be given the >>>>>>>>>> chance >>>>>>>>>> to do so before a ban goes through. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> I have a blocking concern for such a ban on darin.... >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> My belief that darin can change enough, however slowly, is >>>>>>>>>> justified >>>>>>>>>> and potent. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> I have seen he already has. In front of me at least, he no longer >>>>>>>>>> misgenders anyone, including those ppl he previously had, after we >>>>>>>>>> discussed it one night. Even if he's pissed at them. An immediate >>>>>>>>>> improvement from the heart and higher self layered under psychic >>>>>>>>>> shit >>>>>>>>>> like >>>>>>>>>> we all have to deal with just like him, is what I see...He is >>>>>>>>>> actively >>>>>>>>>> working, works hard in general and physically protects ppl from >>>>>>>>>> harassment >>>>>>>>>> daily. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> Misgendering: >>>>>>>>>> I too have been editing "he" for "them" with you Wildcat, because >>>>>>>>>> your >>>>>>>>>> gender pronoun is recent news to me as well as to many others. >>>>>>>>>> I strive to use They, bc of respect for trans identity in >>>>>>>>>> general, and >>>>>>>>>> ALSO camaraderie with you. >>>>>>>>>> But it takes a little time, and it is in good faith with >>>>>>>>>> continuous >>>>>>>>>> editing on my part, as it is for others. >>>>>>>>>> I'm really sorry you are hurt by misgendering and will do my best >>>>>>>>>> to >>>>>>>>>> correct the instances I witness. As I'm sure Darin will too, now >>>>>>>>>> that >>>>>>>>>> this >>>>>>>>>> information is available >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> Sexual Language: >>>>>>>>>> Darin is working on this too. I have twice hung out with darin and >>>>>>>>>> neded to comment on his comments, asking him to hold his tongue, >>>>>>>>>> bc it >>>>>>>>>> was >>>>>>>>>> TMI about his sexual thoughts. >>>>>>>>>> It was not safe space language, and I asked him to.hold his >>>>>>>>>> tongue, but >>>>>>>>>> not an implication of action either, more like expression. >>>>>>>>>> Without FAIL he immediately apologizes and aims to hold back such >>>>>>>>>> comments. He is actively learning what to reserve to his private >>>>>>>>>> thoughts >>>>>>>>>> and I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart... >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> Thus, I have a blocking.concern for this ban suggested for Darin >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> Love, seriously, love, >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> On Sun, Apr 05, 2015 at 10:31 AM, Torrie Fischer < >>>>>>>>>> tdfischer(a)hackerbots.net> wrote: >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> Theres community issues, then theres "issues that involve the >>>>>>>>>> hundreds >>>>>>>>>> of >>>>>>>>>> people subscribed to sudo-discuss". >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> This is not one of those issues. I have no involvement with this. >>>>>>>>>> I >>>>>>>>>> don't want >>>>>>>>>> to get involved with this. I'd honestly rather not hear about who >>>>>>>>>> is >>>>>>>>>> fighting >>>>>>>>>> who, or see people tearing down each other in public. I'd rather >>>>>>>>>> just >>>>>>>>>> hack a >>>>>>>>>> thing and assume that Sudo Room is a happy cheery place that has >>>>>>>>>> their >>>>>>>>>> shit >>>>>>>>>> together and everyone gets along. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> My Ƀ0.02. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> On Saturday, April 04, 2015 03:37:39 PM WIld Cat wrote: >>>>>>>>>> > These are community issues not personal issues. >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:53 PM, Tracy Jacobs < >>>>>>>>>> kinetical(a)comcast.net> >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> wrote: >>>>>>>>>> > > Sudoers, >>>>>>>>>> > > >>>>>>>>>> > > Respectfully can I suggest that you find another way to >>>>>>>>>> address >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> issues of >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > > a personal nature and character assassinations or public >>>>>>>>>> shaming >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> other >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > > than >>>>>>>>>> > > this public mailing list? Why anyone would want to go to Sudo >>>>>>>>>> room >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> after >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > > reading this mailing list is beyond my comprehension. And it >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> really is a >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > > great place. Can anyone think of another venue for these >>>>>>>>>> types of >>>>>>>>>> > > discussions? >>>>>>>>>> > > >>>>>>>>>> > > Tracy >>>>>>>>>> > > On Apr 4, 2015, at 2:41 PM, WIld Cat < >>>>>>>>>> wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com> >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> wrote: >>>>>>>>>> > > Daren returned to the space about 20 mins after trying to >>>>>>>>>> re-enter >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> and >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > > said to me " Do you want to go a couplwe blocks away from >>>>>>>>>> here and >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> handle >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > > this like an adult." >>>>>>>>>> > > >>>>>>>>>> > > Pidgen is claiming that I threatened her and I did tell her >>>>>>>>>> that >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> "you need >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > > to chill out or some shit is going to happen" but I also >>>>>>>>>> clarified >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> by >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > > saying "I am not threatening you with any form of violence." >>>>>>>>>> > > >>>>>>>>>> > > Darin is claiming that Babs sexually assaulted someone but >>>>>>>>>> Darin >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> did not >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > > give any details of what happened. >>>>>>>>>> > > >>>>>>>>>> > > On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:00 PM, WIld Cat < >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com> >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > > wrote: >>>>>>>>>> > >> Today Pidgen was asked to leave in violation of the safer >>>>>>>>>> spaces >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> policy >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > >> on an admitted account of sexual assault in the past as well >>>>>>>>>> as >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> recent >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > >> behaviors of harassment. Daren was asked to leave in >>>>>>>>>> violation of >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> the >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > >> safer >>>>>>>>>> > >> spaces policy by aggressive behavior (aggressive swearing, >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> intentional >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > >> misgendering, inappropriate sexual comments (Told me in an >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> aggressive way >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > >> that he liked phone sex, than began to yell at me.) He has >>>>>>>>>> had a >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> history >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > >> of >>>>>>>>>> > >> being banned from spaces for similar behaviors of sexual >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> harassment and >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > >> inappropriate behavior. >>>>>>>>>> > >> >>>>>>>>>> > >> I would like to begin a mediation process for Daren and I do >>>>>>>>>> not >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> feel >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > >> safe with him being in the space during such process. >>>>>>>>>> > >> >>>>>>>>>> > >> To my knowledge there is an ongoing mediation between Pidgen >>>>>>>>>> and >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> Centi. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > >> that Pidgen has allegedly violated due to harassing behavior. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> Pidgen has >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > >> been banned from several other radical spaces for entitlement >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> problems - >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> > >> theft - aggressive behaivor - accountability issues. >>>>>>>>>> > >> I do not feel safe in the presences of Pidgen and would call >>>>>>>>>> on >>>>>>>>>> > >> the >>>>>>>>>> > >> community to permanently ban Pidgen. >>>>>>>>>> > > >>>>>>>>>> > > _______________________________________________ >>>>>>>>>> > > sudo-discuss mailing list >>>>>>>>>> > > sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >>>>>>>>>> > > https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> _______________________________________________ >>>>>>>>>> sudo-discuss mailing list >>>>>>>>>> sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >>>>>>>>>> https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> _______________________________________________ >>>>>>>> sudo-discuss mailing list >>>>>>>> sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >>>>>>>> https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss >>>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>> _______________________________________________ >>>> sudo-discuss mailing list >>>> sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >>>> https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss [1] >>>> >>> >>> >>> Links: >>> ------ >>> [1] https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss >>> >>> _______________________________________________ >>> sudo-discuss mailing list >>> sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >>> https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss >>> >> >> > [View Less]

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Fwd: Today 4/4/15: Pidgen and Daren have been temp banned for safer spaces policy violations

by WIld Cat

---------- Forwarded message ---------- From: WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com> Date: Tue, Apr 7, 2015 at 3:29 AM Subject: Re: [sudo-discuss] Today 4/4/15: Pidgen and Daren have been temp banned for safer spaces policy violations To: Hol Gaskill <hol(a)gaskill.com> Cc: Rachel Wolfsohn <rawjnana(a)gmail.com>, "mediation(a)omnicommons.org" < mediation(a)omnicommons.org>, cdc(a)lists.omnicommons.org "* If you don't believe people can change, you don't believe in … [View More]RJ or TJ, **and I would LOVE to hear your alternative**to my eyes the only other options are punishment or annihilation, like the state does,** if you're really radical, you'll seek alternative forms of resolution** besides exile, punishment and "training" people, * *whenever possible. I do believe people can change but sometimes you need to draw a line and make sure that the mediation process isn't being abused by the perpetrator. Comparing my forms of dealing with accountability to the State and it's prison/jail industrial complex is gravely offensive to me. I have been to jail before for being homeless - ( 3 charges of tresspassing) - stopping cops from beating people up or using a car to crash into a crowd -( 2 charges obstructing a peace officer)- getting crashed into by a cop - (assault on an officer- charges dropped) stopping the earth from being destroyed and otherwise homeless peoples camps by blockade ( 2 charges obstruction of a roadway) Every time was arrested I endured beatings as well as mental and once extreme physical torture. Comparing my process to such a brutal process as the state's is really fucked up.* NOT ONCE have I seen you actually pursue mediation. No one has asked me to attend a meeting or anything but when ever people have wanted to talk to me I have stopped what I was doing to talk about accountability issues. This is pursuing mediation. I also took the ban proposals to the sudo meetings and have an informal mediation with FNB Joe. *IN FACT WildCAt is currently refusing to participate in more than one mediation, **and while in some cases i actually agree with that other person being banned, and see the issues clear** my problem wtih this is not about that person being banned,** I often think WildCat is right,* * but it's about THE PROCESS AND RESPECTING IT Not wanting to engage with people I do not feel safe around is not failing to mediate. Like I have said no one asked me to go to a follow up meeeting.* *You Still Have To Go To Mediation **In Some Case In Your Life, Why would i be talking on this list if i wasnt interested in mediation* *If You Recognize The Process At All - * Rachel I followed process by emailing y'all and I followed the steps of the Safer Spaces policy: "These are some examples of unacceptable behavior. This list is by no means exhaustive. Harassment includes but is not limited to: - *Deliberate intimidation - Babs and I * - *Deliberate misgendering or use of ‘dead’ or rejected names - Calling me a dude and man with aggressive and accentuaded tone implying it was intentional misgendering* - *Threats of violence - Telling me that we should walk a couple of blocks to settle it like adults implying he wanted to fight.* - *Gratuitous or off-topic sexual images or behaviour in spaces where they’re not appropriate - Telling me he liked phone sex the yelling at me about how I needed to get off of my phone in sudo room. rather than asking me calmly,* 4.‎ ‏Consequences‭ ‬of‭ ‬Unacceptable‭ ‬Behavior Unacceptable‭ ‬behavior‭ ‬from‭ ‬any‭one at the Omni,‭ ‬including‭ ‬sponsors‭ ‬and‭ ‬those‭ ‬with‭ ‬decision-making‭ ‬authority,‭ ‬will‭ ‬not‭ ‬be‭ ‬tolerated. Anyone‭ ‬asked‭ ‬to‭ ‬stop‭ ‬unacceptable‭ ‬behavior‭ ‬is‭ ‬expected‭ ‬to‭ ‬comply‭ ‬immediately. If‭ ‬someone‭ ‬engages‭ ‬in‭ ‬unacceptable‭ ‬behavior,‭* anyone* at the Omni‬‭ should feel empowered to take action to address the situation (i.e., talk to the person involved, point out violent or threatening behavior, *ask them to leave the space*, etc.). In cases where someone's safety is at risk, a temporary ban may be put in place until the Omni's conflict resolution process can be followed to resolution. ‬ 5.‎ ‏If‭ ‬You‭ ‬Witness‭ ‬or‭ ‬Are‭ ‬Subject‭ ‬to‭ ‬Unacceptable‭ ‬Behavior This section needs to be fleshed out more - please see it as a draft in progress. - *Everyone should feel empowered to confront aggressive individuals, but we recommend that you do not approach a potentially violent conflict without another community member, preferably a core organizer, co-present.* _______________________________ *If You're Willing To Work On It " - I am working my ass off on it.* *BTW I talked to people who lived at Hellarity (susie and enola) whom confirmed that Darin was asked to leave multiple times for sexually innapripriate behaivor but keeped showing up. * *Also he was banned from the G-spot Squat immediately after for sexually grinding on/groping a person during a party which Susie Q and I were at. (more that I have not talked to) * On Tue, Apr 7, 2015 at 2:56 AM, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com> wrote: > I think Rachel is\ blowing my proposals out of proportion by saying > > "*What would you do with them? * > *Put them all in one country? * > *Kind of like a concentration of them?* > * Like a camp? Kill them all off? **All bad ideas." * > > I am not saying he is banned I am discussing proposals for a ban and a > constructive resolution. I as a non-member can still call on the safer > space policy to have someone temp banned from the space to establish > safety. No one has asked that I go to a mediation meeting I just said that > I didn't want to talk to any of these people directly. > > > "* If you don't believe people can change, you don't believe in RJ or > TJ, * > *and I would LOVE to hear your alternative* > *to my eyes the only other options are punishment or annihilation, like > the state does,* > * if you're really radical, you'll seek alternative forms of resolution* > * besides exile, punishment and "training" people, * > *whenever possible. * > > *NOT ONCE have I seen you actually pursue mediation. * > > *IN FACT WildCAt is currently refusing to participate in more than one > mediation, * > *and while in some cases i actually agree with that other person being > banned, and see the issues clear* > * my problem wtih this is not about that person being banned,* > * I often think WildCat is right,* > * but it's about THE PROCESS AND RESPECTING IT* > > *You Still Have To Go To Mediation * > *In Some Case In Your Life, * > *If You Recognize The Process At All* > > *If You're Willing To Work On It, "* > > > Rachel I followed process by emailing y'all and I followed the steps of > the Safer Spaces policy: > > "These are some examples of unacceptable behavior. This list is by no > means exhaustive. Harassment includes but is not limited to: > > - *Deliberate intimidation - Babs and I * > - *Deliberate misgendering or use of ‘dead’ or rejected names - > Calling me a dude and man with aggressive and accentuaded tone implying it > was intentional misgendering* > - *Threats of violence - Telling me that we should walk a couple of > blocks to settle it like adults implying he wanted to fight.* > - *Gratuitous or off-topic sexual images or behaviour in spaces where > they’re not appropriate - Telling me he liked phone sex the yelling at me > about how I needed to get off of my phone in sudo room. rather than asking > me calmly,* > > 4.‎ ‏Consequences‭ ‬of‭ ‬Unacceptable‭ ‬Behavior > > Unacceptable‭ ‬behavior‭ ‬from‭ ‬any‭one at the Omni,‭ ‬including‭ > ‬sponsors‭ ‬and‭ ‬those‭ ‬with‭ ‬decision-making‭ ‬authority,‭ ‬will‭ ‬not‭ > ‬be‭ ‬tolerated. > > Anyone‭ ‬asked‭ ‬to‭ ‬stop‭ ‬unacceptable‭ ‬behavior‭ ‬is‭ ‬expected‭ ‬to‭ > ‬comply‭ ‬immediately. If‭ ‬someone‭ ‬engages‭ ‬in‭ ‬unacceptable‭ > ‬behavior,‭* anyone* at the Omni‬‭ should feel empowered to take action > to address the situation (i.e., talk to the person involved, point out > violent or threatening behavior, *ask them to leave the space*, etc.). In > cases where someone's safety is at risk, a temporary ban may be put in > place until the Omni's conflict resolution process can be followed to > resolution. ‬ > > > 5.‎ ‏If‭ ‬You‭ ‬Witness‭ ‬or‭ ‬Are‭ ‬Subject‭ ‬to‭ ‬Unacceptable‭ ‬Behavior > > This section needs to be fleshed out more - please see it as a draft in > progress. > > - *Everyone should feel empowered to confront aggressive individuals, > but we recommend that you do not approach a potentially violent conflict > without another community member, preferably a core organizer, co-present.* > > > _________________________________________________________________________________ > > > > On Mon, Apr 6, 2015 at 3:25 PM, <hol(a)gaskill.com> wrote: > >> friendly reminder - our conflict resolution process was born out of a >> desire to keep conflicts from consuming the time and energy of the whole >> community, especially those that are not involved in the conflict and do >> not have bandwidth to help mediate as an impartial party - this includes >> general meetings and discussion forums >> >> >> On 2015-04-06 14:02, Rachel Wolfsohn wrote: >> >> I'm sorry, Torrie, I really am....sudoconsensus may be needed? >>> On Mon, Apr 06, 2015 at 1:27 PM, Torrie Fischer < >>> tdfischer(a)hackerbots.net> wrote: >>> >>> This is very not important to me because I don't want to read this on >>>> sudo >>>> discuss so I'm unsubscribing from sudo discuss for a while because >>>> everyone >>>> keeps including sudo-discuss as if it somehow makes everything better. >>>> >>>> On Monday, April 06, 2015 11:59:40 AM Rachel Wolfsohn wrote: >>>> >>>>> This is very important to me, because I said I wouldn't keep including >>>>> sudo >>>>> discuss, and now i'm going back on that >>>>> but WildCat does keep including sudo-discuss, >>>>> so I feel like I can't leave it at some long email to one side bias, >>>>> whether mine or not >>>>> so I'm responding to sudo discuss >>>>> to be heard by the group who is already hearing this >>>>> >>>>> sigh, i'm sorry, but I'm upset now.... >>>>> >>>>> *People NEED to be given a chance to change. * >>>>> *Just because you knew someone for a long time and saw problematic >>>>> behavior >>>>> before doesn't mean they can't come to a new place, * >>>>> *and a reformed community, * >>>>> *where they can try to learn and grow. * >>>>> >>>>> *If people are not given a chance to grow what would you do with them?* >>>>> >>>>> * If you don't believe people can change, you don't believe in RJ or >>>>> TJ, * >>>>> *and I would LOVE to hear your alternative* >>>>> *to my eyes the only other options are punishment or annihilation, >>>>> like the >>>>> state does,* >>>>> * if you're really radical, you'll seek alternative forms of >>>>> resolution* >>>>> * besides exile, punishment and "training" people, * >>>>> *whenever possible. * >>>>> >>>>> *NOT ONCE have I seen you actually pursue mediation. * >>>>> >>>>> *IN FACT WildCAt is currently refusing to participate in more than one >>>>> mediation, * >>>>> *and while in some cases i actually agree with that other person being >>>>> banned, and see the issues clear* >>>>> * my problem wtih this is not about that person being banned,* >>>>> * I often think WildCat is right,* >>>>> * but it's about THE PROCESS AND RESPECTING IT* >>>>> >>>>> *You Still Have To Go To Mediation * >>>>> *In Some Case In Your Life, * >>>>> *If You Recognize The Process At All* >>>>> >>>>> *If You're Willing To Work On It, * >>>>> >>>>> *The Refusal Of Mediation Is There To Keep People Safe* >>>>> * In Dire Circumstances * >>>>> *Not In Any Case You Want* >>>>> * And Every Case All The Time* >>>>> * Because You Feel Like It And It's Your Privilege* >>>>> >>>>> *I don't feel like you're respecting that process....* >>>>> >>>>> PERSONALLY I feel: >>>>> Exile is not a real option for the world. If someone is continuously >>>>> exiled >>>>> and not educated and transforming, they will have no where else to go. >>>>> This >>>>> is part of the world, you can't just close yourself off from it and >>>>> ignore >>>>> people >>>>> >>>>> *If you want it to get better, really get better, judging people and >>>>> pushing them out is not the way to actually help it* >>>>> >>>>> *What would you do with them? * >>>>> *Put them all in one country? * >>>>> *Kind of like a concentration of them?* >>>>> * Like a camp? Kill them all off? **All bad ideas. * >>>>> >>>>> *We need to help people grow, and * >>>>> *if you consider yourself an organizer * >>>>> *or a helper of the world* >>>>> * it IS your job to help people grow a* >>>>> *nd give people another chance, * >>>>> *provided they seek new conditions that will faciiltate growth* >>>>> >>>>> *It has to come from them. Yes.* >>>>> *And it is coming from Darin, * >>>>> *however slowly he's learning* >>>>> >>>>> Btw "WildCat" You are not yet a member of sudo yet. >>>>> And you're scaring people, >>>>> with all your bans in a row all of a sudden, >>>>> >>>>> now that you think you have power >>>>> >>>>> *i'm not quitting, but this email put me back over, i'm taking another >>>>> break.* >>>>> >>>>> On Mon, Apr 6, 2015 at 11:39 AM, Cere Misc <cere.misc(a)gmail.com> >>>>> wrote: >>>>> >>>>>> PLEASE TAKE THIS OFF THE SUDO-DISCUSS LIST! >>>>>> >>>>>> On Mon, Apr 6, 2015 at 11:32 AM, WIld Cat < >>>>>> wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com> >>>>>> >>>>>> wrote: >>>>>> >>>>>>> Also with that one month ban I feel that from then on there would >>>>>>> need to >>>>>>> be zero tolerance for any of these behaviors to continue. Last time >>>>>>> I saw >>>>>>> him he challenged me to a fight by saying " do you want to walk a >>>>>>> couple >>>>>>> of >>>>>>> blocks away and handle this like an adult" and my response was to >>>>>>> walk >>>>>>> away.. someone brought up to me that I was causing drama by drawing >>>>>>> the >>>>>>> line with these people but what folks need to understand is that >>>>>>> each of >>>>>>> these people have been going through conflict mediation in this >>>>>>> space so >>>>>>> the drama is theirs not mine. I should not be the one to blame for >>>>>>> the >>>>>>> taking a stance against the problems these people are causing. >>>>>>> Though to >>>>>>> be >>>>>>> accountable in dealing with peoples issues I will gather more >>>>>>> members of >>>>>>> the space to address them. >>>>>>> >>>>>>> On Monday, April 6, 2015, WIld Cat <wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com> >>>>>>> wrote: >>>>>>> >>>>>>>> So I have known Darin for years and he has been called out for all >>>>>>>> of >>>>>>>> this behavior before and still hasn't learned. In terms of him >>>>>>>> misgendering >>>>>>>> me it seemed malicious because he accentuated " man" there were >>>>>>>> several >>>>>>>> witnesses to his extremely aggressive behavior that was a defensive >>>>>>>> response to me calmly asking why he was yelling at Babs. sexual >>>>>>>> harassment >>>>>>>> is not OK. I don't think you can speak for the other people who have >>>>>>>> called >>>>>>>> him out for inappropriate flirting. I had the conflict mediated by >>>>>>>> Joe >>>>>>>> but >>>>>>>> but still just acts the same to different people. I would propose a >>>>>>>> month >>>>>>>> ban at least so he gets that its not being accountable will have >>>>>>>> serious >>>>>>>> consequences. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> On Sunday, April 5, 2015, Rachel Wolfsohn <rawjnana(a)gmail.com> >>>>>>>> wrote: >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> This is the last email I will include sudodisxuss on for this >>>>>>>>> thread... >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> Darin is currently undergoing mediation, and should be given the >>>>>>>>> chance >>>>>>>>> to do so before a ban goes through. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> I have a blocking concern for such a ban on darin.... >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> My belief that darin can change enough, however slowly, is >>>>>>>>> justified >>>>>>>>> and potent. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> I have seen he already has. In front of me at least, he no longer >>>>>>>>> misgenders anyone, including those ppl he previously had, after we >>>>>>>>> discussed it one night. Even if he's pissed at them. An immediate >>>>>>>>> improvement from the heart and higher self layered under psychic >>>>>>>>> shit >>>>>>>>> like >>>>>>>>> we all have to deal with just like him, is what I see...He is >>>>>>>>> actively >>>>>>>>> working, works hard in general and physically protects ppl from >>>>>>>>> harassment >>>>>>>>> daily. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> Misgendering: >>>>>>>>> I too have been editing "he" for "them" with you Wildcat, because >>>>>>>>> your >>>>>>>>> gender pronoun is recent news to me as well as to many others. >>>>>>>>> I strive to use They, bc of respect for trans identity in general, >>>>>>>>> and >>>>>>>>> ALSO camaraderie with you. >>>>>>>>> But it takes a little time, and it is in good faith with continuous >>>>>>>>> editing on my part, as it is for others. >>>>>>>>> I'm really sorry you are hurt by misgendering and will do my best >>>>>>>>> to >>>>>>>>> correct the instances I witness. As I'm sure Darin will too, now >>>>>>>>> that >>>>>>>>> this >>>>>>>>> information is available >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> Sexual Language: >>>>>>>>> Darin is working on this too. I have twice hung out with darin and >>>>>>>>> neded to comment on his comments, asking him to hold his tongue, >>>>>>>>> bc it >>>>>>>>> was >>>>>>>>> TMI about his sexual thoughts. >>>>>>>>> It was not safe space language, and I asked him to.hold his >>>>>>>>> tongue, but >>>>>>>>> not an implication of action either, more like expression. >>>>>>>>> Without FAIL he immediately apologizes and aims to hold back such >>>>>>>>> comments. He is actively learning what to reserve to his private >>>>>>>>> thoughts >>>>>>>>> and I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart... >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> Thus, I have a blocking.concern for this ban suggested for Darin >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> Love, seriously, love, >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> On Sun, Apr 05, 2015 at 10:31 AM, Torrie Fischer < >>>>>>>>> tdfischer(a)hackerbots.net> wrote: >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> Theres community issues, then theres "issues that involve the >>>>>>>>> hundreds >>>>>>>>> of >>>>>>>>> people subscribed to sudo-discuss". >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> This is not one of those issues. I have no involvement with this. I >>>>>>>>> don't want >>>>>>>>> to get involved with this. I'd honestly rather not hear about who >>>>>>>>> is >>>>>>>>> fighting >>>>>>>>> who, or see people tearing down each other in public. I'd rather >>>>>>>>> just >>>>>>>>> hack a >>>>>>>>> thing and assume that Sudo Room is a happy cheery place that has >>>>>>>>> their >>>>>>>>> shit >>>>>>>>> together and everyone gets along. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> My Ƀ0.02. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> On Saturday, April 04, 2015 03:37:39 PM WIld Cat wrote: >>>>>>>>> > These are community issues not personal issues. >>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>> > On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:53 PM, Tracy Jacobs < >>>>>>>>> kinetical(a)comcast.net> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> wrote: >>>>>>>>> > > Sudoers, >>>>>>>>> > > >>>>>>>>> > > Respectfully can I suggest that you find another way to address >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> issues of >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > > a personal nature and character assassinations or public >>>>>>>>> shaming >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> other >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > > than >>>>>>>>> > > this public mailing list? Why anyone would want to go to Sudo >>>>>>>>> room >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> after >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > > reading this mailing list is beyond my comprehension. And it >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> really is a >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > > great place. Can anyone think of another venue for these types >>>>>>>>> of >>>>>>>>> > > discussions? >>>>>>>>> > > >>>>>>>>> > > Tracy >>>>>>>>> > > On Apr 4, 2015, at 2:41 PM, WIld Cat < >>>>>>>>> wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> wrote: >>>>>>>>> > > Daren returned to the space about 20 mins after trying to >>>>>>>>> re-enter >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> and >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > > said to me " Do you want to go a couplwe blocks away from here >>>>>>>>> and >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> handle >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > > this like an adult." >>>>>>>>> > > >>>>>>>>> > > Pidgen is claiming that I threatened her and I did tell her >>>>>>>>> that >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> "you need >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > > to chill out or some shit is going to happen" but I also >>>>>>>>> clarified >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> by >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > > saying "I am not threatening you with any form of violence." >>>>>>>>> > > >>>>>>>>> > > Darin is claiming that Babs sexually assaulted someone but >>>>>>>>> Darin >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> did not >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > > give any details of what happened. >>>>>>>>> > > >>>>>>>>> > > On Sat, Apr 4, 2015 at 2:00 PM, WIld Cat < >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> wildcatofthewoods(a)gmail.com> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > > wrote: >>>>>>>>> > >> Today Pidgen was asked to leave in violation of the safer >>>>>>>>> spaces >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> policy >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > >> on an admitted account of sexual assault in the past as well >>>>>>>>> as >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> recent >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > >> behaviors of harassment. Daren was asked to leave in >>>>>>>>> violation of >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> the >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > >> safer >>>>>>>>> > >> spaces policy by aggressive behavior (aggressive swearing, >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> intentional >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > >> misgendering, inappropriate sexual comments (Told me in an >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> aggressive way >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > >> that he liked phone sex, than began to yell at me.) He has >>>>>>>>> had a >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> history >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > >> of >>>>>>>>> > >> being banned from spaces for similar behaviors of sexual >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> harassment and >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > >> inappropriate behavior. >>>>>>>>> > >> >>>>>>>>> > >> I would like to begin a mediation process for Daren and I do >>>>>>>>> not >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> feel >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > >> safe with him being in the space during such process. >>>>>>>>> > >> >>>>>>>>> > >> To my knowledge there is an ongoing mediation between Pidgen >>>>>>>>> and >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> Centi. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > >> that Pidgen has allegedly violated due to harassing behavior. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> Pidgen has >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > >> been banned from several other radical spaces for entitlement >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> problems - >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> > >> theft - aggressive behaivor - accountability issues. >>>>>>>>> > >> I do not feel safe in the presences of Pidgen and would call >>>>>>>>> on >>>>>>>>> > >> the >>>>>>>>> > >> community to permanently ban Pidgen. >>>>>>>>> > > >>>>>>>>> > > _______________________________________________ >>>>>>>>> > > sudo-discuss mailing list >>>>>>>>> > > sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >>>>>>>>> > > https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> _______________________________________________ >>>>>>>>> sudo-discuss mailing list >>>>>>>>> sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >>>>>>>>> https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>> _______________________________________________ >>>>>>> sudo-discuss mailing list >>>>>>> sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >>>>>>> https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss >>>>>>> >>>>>> >>> _______________________________________________ >>> sudo-discuss mailing list >>> sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >>> https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss [1] >>> >> >> >> Links: >> ------ >> [1] https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss >> >> _______________________________________________ >> sudo-discuss mailing list >> sudo-discuss(a)lists.sudoroom.org >> https://lists.sudoroom.org/listinfo/sudo-discuss >> > > [View Less]

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